“Our first reaction must always be a thought, word or action of emuna.  If we got fired, if we were robbed, if someone struck us, if we received a speeding ticket, if our child was expelled, etc.  Our first reaction must be, “this is what Hashem wants and it is for the best.”  Even if we don’t understand what Hashem wants from us or how it could possibly be good – first, we must say it is Hashem’s will and it is for the best.” ~ R’ Menachem Azolai as translated by Dov Elias