Love is a choice. We love our babies, even before they’re born.  We don’t know who they’ll be, what they’ll be like, but we love them.  You know why? Because we chose to love them. We’re ready. No matter how they come out, we’re already in love.

Now…what about your spouses?  The ones we chose – and not just chose, but chose above everyone else. We said,  “that’s the one!”  We made a decision…so how can a person fall out of love?

Parents stick with their children, loving them more and more, even though they’re not blind to the fact that their children aren’t perfect…. But we love them, because we chose to love them.  Why should our spouses be any different?

~ Rebbetzin Lori Palatnik