Since my youth, I have seen several times that any man, woman, family, country or city that was involved in a machlokes (disagreement, argument, conflict), both sides didn’t come out clean.

They were smitten on their bodies and with their money, rachhmanah litzlan.  

Someone with wisdom will think about this and be mevater (give in)…and will see that for whatever he loses, he will earn reward in this world and in the next world.”

~ R’ Chaim Palagi zt”l (1788-1868)