Category Archives: Shalom Bayis

Husbands, try this tonight

Shabbos evening upon returning from Maariv, Rav Simcha Zissel Ziv zt”l would pause for a while in the entrance of his home to study all the Shabbos preparations.  He would observe the beautifully set table and the many delicious foods … Continue reading

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Smile

A young man once came to Rabbi Noson Tzvi Finkel to announce his engagement.  Noticing that he had a very solemn facial expression, Rav Noson Tzvi lectured him on the importance of having a cheerful expression.  Rabbi Finkel stressed that … Continue reading

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The Royal Family

The Menoras Hamaor cites a Midrash in which a wise woman told her daughter: “Serve your husband as if he were a king.  For, if you will act toward him like his maid, he will act as if he were … Continue reading

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The Right Mate

Az es kumt der basherter, vert es in tsvai verter.  The right mate comes with a first date.

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Don’t Lose Your Temper This Shabbos

On Friday, in the rush to finish the Shabbos preparations on time, a person is apt to become short-tempered.  On Shabbos, when the entire family sits at the table together, parents might become angry with young children for misbehaving.  Thus, special care should be taken on Shabbos to control one’s anger.  ~ R’ Eliyahu Lopian zt”l … Continue reading

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Lincoln’s Policy

President Abraham Lincoln was once criticized for his policy toward his enemies. “Why do you try to befriend them?” he was asked. “You should try to destroy them.” “Do I not destroy my enemies,” the president asked, “by befriending them?” … Continue reading

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Nothing is greater than Peace

Nothing is greater than peace. Even when you are 100% right, and you know your spouse is 100% wrong, you can still give in for the sake of peace. Better a difficult peace than an easy quarrel. ~ R’ Tzvi … Continue reading

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All Due to His Wife

“Metaphor from the Talmud: A man works in the field and brings home wheat — but shall he then eat wheat? Of what use is his toil? His wife grinds the wheat into flour and makes bread.  So too, the tasks of life: A … Continue reading

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The Giving Relationship

In a home, in a relationship, in any situation where people work together, each side has to give. What you give is not so important. How you give is. You have to want to give. ~ R’ Tzvi Freeman

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A Good Wife

A good wife is one who makes her husband want the right things. ~ R’ Tzvi Freeman

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