Category Archives: Shmiras Haloshon

Those who speak loshon hora cause the Accuser to speak against the Jewish people. ~ Sefer Chofetz Chaim

Many people erroneously feel justified in ridiculing a Torah lecture or sermon.  Unfortunately, this practice is quite common and the source of serious harm.  Even if it is true that the delivery was poor or that the content was lacking … Continue reading →

Members of boards of directors and school faculties often have to render decisions that will be met with disapproval by those affected.  It is forbidden for anyone attending such a meeting to disclose the names of people who spoke or … Continue reading →

This is a very important practical halacha that I was concerned about after some scandals involving Jewish people were written up in the newspapers. Many people mistakenly think that repeating well-known derogatory information is not considered loshon hora.  It should … Continue reading →

You are forbidden to relate loshon hora to a single individual or to a group.  The larger the group that hears your loshon hora, the graver your sin, since the victim will be degraded in the eyes of more people. … Continue reading →

Adding something derogatory about yourself when you disparage others does not mitigate the fact that you have spoken loshon hora.  This includes instances when you mention that you and a friend both did the exact same action or have the … Continue reading →

You are forbidden to convey loshon hora through hints and signs, hand or finger motions, and facial expressions. “Mr. Weiss is a considerate fellow.  Sure he is (in a sarcastic tone).” “Joe is very honest (cough, cough).” “Sara is extremely … Continue reading →

You are forbidden to show someone’s letter [or email] to others in order to belittle its writer.  Even if you don’t make any comments, if the reader will get the impression that the writer is lacking in general intelligence or … Continue reading →

The transgression of loshon hora can be committed through speech or writing.  Derogatory information in personal letters, [emails,] books, newspapers, circulars, and wall posters constitute loshon hora. ~ Guard Your Tongue  

If you find yourself in the company of people who are gossiping about others and you are not able to leave them, even though you may feel uncomfortable being the only silent person present, you are nevertheless forbidden to speak … Continue reading →