Category Archives: Shmiras Haloshon

Tried and Proven

It has been tried and proven that if a person applies himself to shemiras halashon, the more he grows accustomed to it, the easier it becomes. He will begin to notice the improper words that leave his mouth, whereas he … Continue reading

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Lashon Hora about Relatives

The prohibition against speaking and hearing loshon hora also applies to relatives.  Therefore a father is permitted to inquire about his son’s studies only if he will try to help his son.  If the questioning is merely out of curiosity, … Continue reading

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Public Humiliation

Just by opening one’s mouth, he can forfeit his portion in the World to Come, as our sages taught, “A person who humiliates his fellow in public has no portion in the World to Come.” ~ Bava Metzia 59

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More than any other Sin

Hashem is more exacting with the sin of lashon hara than with any other sin.  As Rebbe Shimon bar Yochai taught in the Zohar: “Hashem is prepared to forgive anything except lashon hara.” ~ Chofetz Chaim

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Fire

Your words are fire! They can bring warmth and comfort Or spread and destroy Everything!

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Why it is So Forbidden

The Torah so strictly forbids lashon hara because it awakens the Satan to raise accusations against the Jewish people.  These accusations can even lead to untimely death. ~ Chofetz Chaim zt”l

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Locked in a Safe

Speech is the most precious of all human faculties.  Therefore, one must carefully guard his tongue by practicing the trait of silence.  He must treat his words like gold, silver, and precious jewels, which are locked away in a safe … Continue reading

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Don’t Give Up

If the yetzer hara succeeds in making you speak lashon hara today, then endeavor to overcome it tomorrow.  If, chas v’shalom, it succeeds again tomorrow, then stregthen yourself to overcome it the next day. ~ The Chofetz Chaim zt”l

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A Healing for the Tongue

Through Torah study, the damage caused by lashon hara can be repaired to some extent.  The Gemara states (Arachin 15b): “How can speakers of lashon hara correct their deeds? If they are scholars, let them toil in Torah, as the … Continue reading

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Hidden Light

Our Sages tell us that even if a person restrains himself from forbidden speech for just a mere moment, he will merit the special hidden light reserved for those who guard their tongues – as we see from the words … Continue reading

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