Why are you so quiet?

If you find yourself in company, it is better that you be told: “Speak, why are you so still?” rather than that you speak and your words be burdensome to them and they will tell you: “Be quiet.” ~ Orchot Tzddikim

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Like a Bird

Just as a bird will soar ever higher only as long as it vigorously beats its wings but will begin to fall and descend to earth as soon as it stops its energetic activity, so too it is with man.

As long as he is actively engaged in a vigorous program of character refinement and self-improvement, he will soar to ever-higher spheres of spiritual attainment.  When he discontinues his determined efforts, however, and slackens in his quest for self-improvement, he will begin to fall from his previously high plateau of spiritual attainment. ~ R’ Yisrael Salanter zt”l

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Many Levels

Faith has many levels.  The level you are on depends on how intensely you live and feel your faith – how real and alive it is to you.  Concomitantly, your level of faith dictates the demands the Almighty will place on you and what expectations He has of you. ~ R’ Zeidel Epstein zt”l

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The Totality of our Lives

We must know that faith is not something that can merely remain in our thought; rather, it must permeate the totality of our lives. ~ Lubavitcher Rebbe

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A Most Powerful Brachah

A childless person went to many doctors for treatments. The treatments were extremely painful, but all his attempts proved futile. One year, he came to his rebbe, and he begged him to bless him with  children. It was then Slichos, and he was hoping that that he could yet merit a child in the coming year.

The Rebbe replied, “If I tell you the name of a tzaddik who has the ability to bless you with children, will you go to him?” “Certainly,” the chassid replied.

“And if the tzaddik requests something very difficult from you, will you do as he advises?”

“Of course I will,” the man replied. “I’ll do whatever I can to have children.”

The Rebbe said, “Well, there was a tzaddik many years ago, renowned as the Tosfos Yom Tov zt’l. He blesses all people who don’t speak by the davening to have children. I advise you to follow the Tosfos Yom Tov’s counsel. Be cautious, don’t speak during the tefillah, and you will receive the brachah from the Tosfos Yom Tov, and you will merit healthy children.”

He followed the counsel. A year later, around Selichos time, he had twins. He said, “The doctors gave me painful treatments, but nothing was as hard as remaining silent during the tefillah. It was especially difficult when someone came over and wanted to speak with me. My face changed colors, as I motioned to them that I can’t speak until after the tefillah…” He passed the difficult test, received the Tosfos Yom Tov’s blessing, and had children.

~ R’ Elimelech Biderman Shlita

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Gratitude

Ask not “How can I get all the things I want?”

Ask “How can I enjoy the things I have?”

~ Chicken Soup to Warm the Neshama

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We Are All Different

No two minds are alike, [just as] no two faces are alike ~ Berachot 58a

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Mind Wandering?

If your mind strays while praying, do not give up trying to concentrate.  As soon as your realize you are not concentrating on what you are saying, at that very moment begin concentrating. ~ Vilna Gaon

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No Room

The Torah states “As soon as Yaakov left…Esau his brother came…”(Genesis 27).  As soon as the righteous Yaakov leaves the evil Esau enters his place.  There is no room for compromise in Torah. ~ The Alter of Novhardok

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Even the Small

Since R’ Nosson Zvi Finkel zt”l held that major offenses are the result of a series of lesser ones, he did not overlook any small deed of his students. ~ Sparks of Mussar

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