Sure-Fire Segulos for Parnasah

I heard from R’ Shlomo Gottesman that there are many segulos for parnassah which some people subscribe to and some do not, but here are three segulos that are guaranteed to work:

  1. Give tzedukah (maaser);
  2. Say Birkat Hamazon properly each day; and
  3. Say Bareich Alainu in Shemona Esrei with proper kavanah.
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Two Walls

Chazal observe that Hashem placed the tongue behind two walls, the teeth and the lips, so that one refrain from inappropriate speech.

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The Awesome Power of Judging People Favorably

R’ Nachman of Breslov taught that when you judge someone favorably, Hashem judges that person the same way that you judged him.

For example, if you see someone eating food that is not kosher, but you think to yourself that he must be eating it for health reasons and has no other choice, Hashem will actually judge that person as if he has health issues and has no choice!  How you judge, that is how Hashem will judge!

Can you imagine if we would all just judge people favorably?!

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Flame of a Candle

The flame of candle, representative of the Jewish soul (Mishlei 20:27), always points upwards. Under all circumstances, it refuses to face down. A Jew is the same. He is always growing, developing and striving to reach greater and greater heights. ~ Rebbetzin Ruthie Halberstadt

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Realist

In Israel, to be a realist, you have to believe in miracles. ~ David Ben Gurion

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No Obstacles

If you’re doing something and there are no objections or obstacles to overcome, it’s a pretty sure sign that what you’re doing isn’t very important. ~ R’ Shlomo Carlebach zt”l

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Guarantee for a Happy Life

If you are sincerely interested in having a guarantee for a happy life, learn to accept what cannot be changed. ~ R’ Zeliig Pliskin

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Just One Condition

Hashem is more than happy to give us our heart’s wishes — but only on condition that they’re good for us. ~ R’ Lazer Brody

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Every Single Thing!

Everything is by Divine Providence…Every single thing a person sees or hears is an instruction to him in his conduct and service of God.

~ The Baal Shem Tov – frequently quoted by the Lubavitcher Rebbe zt”l

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A Holocaust Story

It was during those difficult and dark years in Auschwitz that the Nazis ym”s gathered together a group of girls and women and transported them in cattle cars to the hills to construct a dam. Stopping at the bottom of the hill, the women disembarked and began making the long trek all the way to the top. It was an exhausting walk of many kilometers, and yet it was only the beginning of their day’s work. Exerting themselves for hours on end, at the end of the day, they had to retrace their steps back down the hill.

On one occasion, one sixteen-year-old girl could no longer take it. Emaciated and weak, she told her friend that she would not be returning with her down the hill. Although she was well aware that such a decision would be endangering her life, she remained undeterred. “I cannot do it,” she said; “let them take my life if they so desire.” But her friend would not hear of such a thing. “I am not leaving you here. You need to live and you are going to live!” “I can’t!” the girl persisted. “Okay, I will help you,” said her friend. Without delay, the sixteen-year-old girl was flung over her friend’s shoulders, herself tired and frail, and carried kilometers back to the cattle cars.

Fast forward forty years later… Mazel Tov! Mazel Tov! My daughter had become a kallah. Amid the feelings of joy pervading our home, in walked my mother, the bubby of the kallah. With a smile on her face, she stood still, holding her walker and looking on at the many people who had gathered together for her granddaughter’s vort. From the other side of the room, the grandmother of the chassan entered. She too was elated to participate in the joyous occasion of her grandson’s vort. And then their eyes met. The grandmother of the chassan looked at my mother, the grandmother of the kallah. It was a familiar face. Quite familiar… from forty years before. “Mrs. Schachter,” called out the grandmother of the chassan, “throw away your walker. I will carry you.”

The grandmother of the chassan was none other than the friend who had carried my mother in Auschwitz and saved her life. The woman who had reinvigorated my mother and reminded her never to give up on life, no matter how difficult and dark it may seem, was later privileged to see the fruits of her encouraging words and tireless efforts. Reuniting together where they could share mutual nachas, they both realized that from the bitterest of moments, the happiest of moments had grown forth. Never give up on life, even when it is your last breath, for you never know where that last breath may take you. ~ Rabbi Fischel Schachter

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