One Small Difference

The only difference between a poor person and a wealthy one is the future.  Whatever happened to them in the past is no longer relevant.  We all live in the present moment regardless of our life situation.  No matter what happens in the present moment, in a split second the present will become the past.  Not worrying about the future enables you to enjoy what you have already and are doing in the present. ~ Kochvai Ohr

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A New Day

To overcome your negative habits, view each day as if it is the first day of your life.  Have a fresh view of things each and every day. ~  R’ Yeruchem Levovitz zt”l

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Refraining from LH

By refraining from lashon hara, one spares himself the anger of others and causes them to love him and trust him with their secrets.  Middah k’negged middah (measure for measure), no one will ever speak badly of him. ~ Shemiras Halashon citing the Arizal

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R’ Elimelech of Lizhensk Zt”l

R’ Elimelech of Lizhensk said, “I am confident of being admitted to Gan Eden.  The Heavenly Court will ask me, ’Melech, did you study adequately?’ and I will say, ‘No.’ They will say, ‘Did you daven properly?’ and I will say, ‘No.’  They will say, ‘Did you give adequate tzedakah?’ and I will say, ‘No.’  They will say, ‘He is truthful.  Let him into Gan Eden.’”

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Share the Wonders

Share the wonders of the Almighty with your friends and relatives in order to give them a greater appreciation for the power of the Creator. ~ Ralbag

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Deal with Now

Even if you have devoted a lot of time and effort to some project, if you presently become aware that it is better to cancel it, do so.  The fact that you have invested much energy is irrelevant.  Deal only with the question: “Is this the right thing to do now?” ~ Chayai Hamussar

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Sincere Generosity

When you could have given a smaller donation and other people would have considered that amount sufficient, your giving a larger sum shows that it comes from sincere generosity.

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Imagine the Worst

When you feel anxiety about a future event, imagine the worst and accept it.  This has a very calming effect.  For example, if you are afraid you will miss a bus and feel anxiety, imagine you have already missed it and accept the consequences.  If you are afraid you will be fired from your job, imagine you have already been fired and accept it. ~ R’ Zelig Pliskin

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Miracles

The truth is that there is no essential difference between the natural and the miraculous. Everything that occurs is a miracle.  The world has no other cause but the will of God. ~ R’ Eliyahu Dessler zt”l

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The Tchebiner Rav zt”l

Someone told the Tchebiner Rav zt’l that he has older children, and he hasn’t yet found a shidduch for them. The Tchebiner Rav told him the following story: “One Erev Yom Kippur, before dawn, a person was walking to do kaparos. He held a chicken in one hand, his other hand held the machzor, and then his eyeglasses slid off his nose to the ground. What should he do? How could be pick up his eyeglasses? Both of his hands were full. If he put the chicken down for a moment, it would run away. He obviously couldn’t put the machzor on the ground. So he stood there perplexed, not knowing what to do.”

“So what did he do?” the man asked. “I don’t know,” the Tchebiner Rav replied. “But one thing I’m certain of; he’s not standing there anymore.”

With this story, the Tchebiner Rav was telling him, life goes on. There are hurdles, there are challenges, but they pass. The difficulties aren’t forever. ~ R’ Elimelech Biderman

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