Actions

A person’s actions can influence his personality – Rambam

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What People Need

To be kind is more important than to be right.  Many times, what people need is not a brilliant mind that speaks but a special heart that listens.

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Fear of Sin

Rabbi Chanina ben Dosa says: Anyone whose fear of sin takes precedence over his wisdom, his wisdom will endure; but anyone whose wisdom takes precedence over his fear of sin, his wisdom will not endure.  ~ Pirkei Avos 3:11

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I’d rather not discuss So-and-So

If one says “I’d rather not discuss So-and-so” so as to avoid speaking loshon hora, he is in effect, communicating that he knows something negative about that person and is therefore considered avak loshon hora.  ~ Chofetz Chaim zt”l

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Candles or Wine?

Shabbos candles take precedence over Kiddush wine, for their light fosters peace and harmony in one’s home.  ~ Chofetz Chaim zt”l

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Nothing like the Present

Based on the gemara in Chagigah 11b…A person whose only concern is what was and what will be, loses what is.  And since the present is all that is, it would have been better had he never come into this world.  ~ R’ Yaakov Meir Shechter

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Unhappy

Don’t become sad just because you are unhappy. ~ R’ Nachman of Breslov zt”l

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One Favor

A soul may descend to earth and live seventy or eighty years for the sole purpose of doing a favor for another.  A spiritual favor, or even a material favor. ~ The Baal Shem Tov zt”l

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Don’t Wait

If you wait until you find the meaning of life, will there be enough life left to live meaningfully? ~ The Lubavitcher Rebbe zt”l

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Giving Praise

Praising a person in a situation where someone present is likely to temper such praise with criticism is another form of avak loshon hora… ~ The Chofetz Chaim zt”l

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