Salty Tea

After Shabbos, Rabbi Yehoshua Leib Diskin used to lecture on the weekly portion.  A certain person used to bring him tea to drink during the lectures. Once, the person made a mistake and instead of adding sugar, he put in salt.  The person always used to put in a large amount of sugar, so this time Rabbi Diskin’s tea contained a large amount of salt.

Rabbi Diskin drank the salty tea as if there were nothing unusual about the taste.  A few minutes later, his wife discovered the error, and came running into take away the cup which was almost empty.  Afterward, a few students tried to taste the tea and were amazed that their teacher had drunk such salty tea.  After most of the students left the house, Rabbi Diskin’s wife asked him why he didn’t say anything.  The excess salt could have a bad effect on his health.

“How could I embarrass someone just because he made an error?” was Rav Yehoshua Leib’s reply. ~ Amud Aish as quoted by R’ Zelig Pliskin

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What time is “Early Shabbos?”

The Midrash says: Whoever adds from the weekday to Shabbos, his soul will be paid back measure for measure in the World to Come.  If, Heaven forbid, his soul is in Gehinnom, it will be taken out of Gehinnom on erev Shabbos as early as the time he added to Shabbos in this world; and the same goes for motzei Shabbos.  The soul of a person who did not add to Shabbos will be let out of Gehinnom very late on erev Shabbos. ~ Minchas Shabbos 76:9 as quoted by R’ Dovid Meisels

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Human Nature

It is human nature for a person to judge one’s fellow by his own traits. ~ The Kotzker Rebbe zt”l

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For Their Own Good

It is the most natural thing in the world for us to punish our children or to put difficulties in their way “for their own good.”  How often do we do the same to ourselves for our own good? ~ R’ Shraga Silverstein zt”l

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I Found You

Where, Lord, will I find you: Your place is high and obscured.

And where won’t I find you: Your glory fills the world….

I sought your nearness: With all my heart I called you.

And in my going out to meet you, I found you coming toward me. ~ Yehuda Ha’Levi

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Safe from all Harm

Hashem says: I can save you from all harm provided that you conceal yourself from loshon hora. ~ Yalkut Shimoni Devarim 933

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Mussar is not Enough

It is not enough simply to learn mussar in order to help us refrain from lashon hara.  We must also learn the laws of what is considered lashon hara.  What good is all the mussar in the world, which warns of the terrible prohibition of lashon hara and rechilus, if a person permits himself with baseless excuses that “This is not considered lashon hara,” or “The Torah permits lashon hara about that person.” ~ Shemiras Halashon, introduction

On a personal note, I have unfortunately witnessed the truth of the above quote.  Too many people don’t know the halachos of Lashon Hara and therefore speak it without realizing it.  Today, we should all take it upon ourselves to learn these halachos.   You can purchase seforim or simply subscribe to daily emails on the topic.  There are so many to choose from.  May we all be zoche to learn these halachos and not speak lashon hara from this point forward.  

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R’ Refael of Bershid zt”l on Tisha B’Av

Rabbi Refael of Bershid was once visiting a certain town.  On Tisha B’av, he was informed of a bitter feud between two groups, and was asked to serve as mediator.

“We assume, however, that you will not want to hear the two sides until tomorrow, since today is a fast day,” they told him.

“On the contrary,” responded Rav Refael. “The destruction of the Temple was caused by unwarranted hatred (Yoma 9b).  What is more appropriate than trying to promote peace and brotherhood on this day?” ~ Midrash Pinchos as quoted by R’ Zelig Pliskin

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Let’s Make an Extra Effort this Shabbos

The difficulties that one experiences in life with regard to children, health and parnassah derive from the sin of speaking during Tefillah. ~ R’ DovBer of Lubavitch zt”l

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Courage

A soldier once said, “What is courage?  Courage is fear that has said its prayers.” ~ Torah Tavlin

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