Blending the Physical with the Spiritual

“Prior to Mattan Torah, the spiritual was spiritual, the physical was physical, and the two did not in any way impact one on another. The novel development at Har Sinai was that Hashem delegated to Am Yisrael the power to interfere with spirituality through their involvement with physicality.

After this moment, whenever a Jew puts on tefillin, not only does he do a physical act with a couple of boxes some straps and parchments of Torah, he actually causes a spiritual change. Furthermore, when Jews behave in a manner consistent with Torah and mitzvos they actually cause a spiritual change for the benefit of all mankind. When they do not so behave, they interfere negatively to the loss of mankind.” ~ The Lubavitcher Rebbe

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Lincoln’s Policy

President Abraham Lincoln was once criticized for his policy toward his enemies.

“Why do you try to befriend them?” he was asked. “You should try to destroy them.”

“Do I not destroy my enemies,” the president asked, “by befriending them?” ~ Chicken Soup for the Neshama

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Sitting in the Dark

“If one sits in the dark long enough, he begins to think it is light.” ~ R’ Hillel Partischer, disciple of the Tzemach Tzedek.

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Getting old?

Do not regret growing older.  It is a privilege denied to many.

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Try to Translate

“A shtikel mazel iz vert merer vi a ton gold” 

A little bit of luck is better than a ton of gold.

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R’ Shimon Shkop and an Old Interesting Canadian Law

Rav Shimon Shkop had traveled to Montreal to raise money for the yeshiva. He stayed at the home of a certain wealthy man, who was known for his generous contributions to worthwhile causes. When he arrived on this particular occasion he found his usually magnanimous host in joylessness and frustration. He had conveyed to Rav Shkop that great trouble had loomed for him and his family. As his family grew it became apparent that more room was needed for the children and more space was also needed for a larger meeting hall for community activities which the man hosted on a weekly basis. An addition was built onto the side of the house, but it was found out later that the addition extended a total of one foot onto the neighbor’s property, a very petty amount considering that both him and his neighbor had ample property to begin with. The problem was that a malcontent kvetcher lived next door, and demanded that something be done about the extension. But it wasn’t just “something” that she was after. Under Canadian law at the time, if an extension had been built onto another person’s property, purposely or inadvertently, the law said that the encroached-upon property’s owner had the right to tear down the entire house of the neighbor, and not merely the addition. And this was the case with the kvetcher. She demanded that the entire house be demolished. Rav Shkop’s host and his lawyer first fought with the old woman. They screamed and they yelled. He then tried entreating her, but she was not moved. He brought her flowers, then chocolates, and increasingly lavish gifts. And then their was more yelling.

Finally, upon Rav Shkop’s visit, he asked him for an eitza (advice). Surely, Rav Shkop could think up some sort of solution. And this is what Rav Shkop had to say: “Go to shul. Go as quickly as possible the next time the Torah will be taken out. Make sure you’re called up for an aliyah (to be called up to the Torah to make a blessing). Afterward, go with your lawyer to speak with the woman one more time.” Was that all? Would getting an aliyah save his house from being demolished? The next morning, Monday, he went to shul, and requested an aliyah from the gabbai. He called his lawyer after minyan, and the two rushed to the stubborn woman’s house next door. And the man said to her, pleadingly, “this is the last time; I promise you that this is the last time I will bother you about the house. Please, PLEASE don’t let the city tear down my home. It’s only one foot of land. I’ll cut away at the extension if you would like, but please not the entire home.” The woman, now confused, looked him in the eye, and said, “tear down your house? Why would I want to tear down your house? Who would be such a miserable person to tear down a neighbor’s entire home over a disputed foot of land? Please do as you like. It’s all right by me.” The man and his lawyer were flabbergasted. They offered the woman a polite “thank you” and practically tip-toed out of the house in fear that she might regain her senses and retract her words.

The two, elated, went back to Rav Shko Rav Shkop for some clarity. After all, the woman had been adamant for months about tearing down the house. It just didn’t make any sense. Rav Shkop explained, “it is brought down in the mishna berurah that the person getting an aliyah should follow along with the ba’al koreh (Torah reader) by actually looking down onto the claf (parchment). One should also look into the Torah, close enough that he sees the osiyos (letters) during hagbah (the lifting of the Torah). During an aliyah, however, he sees the osiyos up close, and this brings him a special zechus. In addition, there is a special light that emanates from the Torah, and when one looks into the Torah he becomes infused with this light. You went to the woman’s house almost directly after becoming infused with this light, and when she looked into your face, the radiance of the light touched her soul, and this woman who was formerly irrational, unreasonable, foolish and absurd, now became levelheaded, sensible, reasonable and decent. And this is how she came to change her mind.”

This story became famous throughout the Jewish community of Montreal, and also among the family of Rav Shkop. The story is still told today by members of the family of Rav Zelig Epstein and other grandchildren and great-grandchildren of Rav Shkop.

~ http://rebbestories.blogspot.com

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Finding Fault in Others?

When I start to find fault with all that I see, it’s time to start looking for what’s wrong with me. ~ The Baal Shem Tov

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The Benefits of the Evil Inclination – Very Deep

“Having the evil inclination is actually something of great benefit to us.  It is with this that we can truly serve God.  When we are subjected to the fierce heat of the evil inclination, we have the capacity to steel ourselves to get the better of it.  Then we can channel this passion into an act of genuine service.  If a man lacked the evil inclination, all his service would amount to nothing.  That is why God allows the evil inclination to do its work and to infect everyone to such a degree, none more so than the ones who genuinely yearn to draw close to God.

It is true that the onslaught and sickness of the evil inclination can reduce people to terrible lows and bring them to much sin and wrongdoing.  But in God’s eyes, all this is good and fitting because of the preciousness of those stirrings and gestures which a person makes when he is beset by the full force and power of the evil inclination.  Even so he stirs himself to escape from it.  Through this simple gesture of determination, he accomplishes more than he would if he were to serve God for a thousand years without the evil inclination.”  R’ Nachman of Breslov zt”l

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What is the greatest gift you can give your children?

“When we teach our children to see the greatness of Hashem all around, we are giving them the greatest of gifts.  Hashem bestows knowledge upon us, and we too, should bestow knowledge of Hashem on our children.” ~ R’ Avigdor Miller zt”l

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You will have the same character, here and there

“No one acquires a new character, or new longings or desires, after his death.  One who was interested in nothing but material desires during his lifetime will not evince an unsuspected interest in spiritual concerns after his death.  The personality one brings with one from this world is the personality one will have the World to Come.  There is no more opportunity for progress or correction there, except by the corrective process of Gehinnom.  So states the verse in Koheleth, ‘Act with all your strength while you can, for there is no more doing, reckoning, knowledge or wisdom in the grave to which you are going.’” ~ R’ Eliyahu Dessler zt”l

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