While You Work

“One must speak and learn Chassidus even while busy working in mundane affairs,” Rabbi Shmuel of Lubavitch demanded of his Chassidim.

“How is it possible to think about concepts of Chassidus while we are busy from head to toe in business?” a chassid once lamented to the Rebbe in a private audience.

“If it is possible to think about business while you are praying, it is also possible for you to think about Chassidus while you are working!” was the Rebbe’s reply. ~ Sipurei Chassidim, Festivals,” story 357 from Chicken soup to warm the Neshama

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A Bad Peace

A shlechteh shalom iz besser vi a gutter krig – A bad peace is better than a good war.

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Reb Yaakov zt”l

A woman once asked R’ Yaakov Kamenetsky zt”l whether or not it was permissible to lie about one’s earnings in order to obtain government food stamps.  R’ Yaakov responded that this was absolutely forbidden.  The woman asked “But don’t many gentiles cheat about these things?” R’ Yaakov replied, “But they did not stand at Har Sinai – we did.”

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How does one reach perfection?

We’re put in this world to be formed into something beautiful.  And so a pummel here…and a knock here…and punch here.  We think it’s all a waste.  We would like to get along without it, but that’s making us, it’s smoothing us.  It’s making us into what we are supposed to become.  Part of our being in this world is involuntary perfection.  ~ R’ Avigdor Miller zt”l 

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Workaholics

If one obtains his livelihood by one of the various means that he has employed, he should not grow to rely on that source, becoming enamored and obsessed with it, and yield his heart to it; for then his reliance on God will be weakened.  He should not think that it can be of more use to him than had already been determined by the Creator.  Instead of exulting in one’s devotion to his profession and in the efforts he has invested in it, one should thank the Creator Who gave him sustenance after he had exerted himself and did not allow his toil and trouble to be in vain, as it is written “You will eat the fruit of the labor of your hands; you will be happy and it will be well with you.” (Tehillim 128:2). ~ Chovos Halevovos

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How we deal

“Happiness is not an absence of problems, but the ability to deal with them.” ~ Steve Maraboli

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Connection

We are here on a holy mission. “You shall be to Me a kingdom of ministers and a holy nation.” We received mitzvos so that we can connect to Hashem. It is all about connection. When there is no immediate mitzvah available – we attach through thought. If we need a break or need to relax a bit – that too can be motivated by the ultimate goal. Vacations, talking with friends, eating something enjoyable are all positive, if they are done with connection. ~ R’ Menachem Azolai as translated by Dov Elias

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Nothing is greater than Peace

Nothing is greater than peace. Even when you are 100% right, and you know your spouse is 100% wrong, you can still give in for the sake of peace.

Better a difficult peace than an easy quarrel. ~ R’ Tzvi Freeman

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They are happy

Ainam dacht zich az bei yenem lacht zich – One always thinks that others are happy.

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Reb Elimelech of Lishensk

The Chidushe HaRim, known to not get involved in miracles, passed through the town where the Holy Reb Elimelech of Lishensk had once resided. He was searching for anyone in the town who once saw the holy tzaddik.  After a long search he picked a random resident of the town that he had not know previously and said, “You!  You have seen the holy tzaddik, Reb Elimelech! The yid responded in the affirmative. The Chidushe HaRim then said, “Don’t think I did anything special. It is well known that once a person had laid eyes on the holy tzaddik, Reb Elimelech, they no longer look like a regular person.”

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