Inheritance

A group of orphans were to receive a large inheritance from their father, consisting of money and precious gems.  The executor of the estate instructed them to bring luggage to carry away their shares.  “What!” they exclaimed.  “Such a magnificent estate and we must bring suitcases?  Aren’t there any among the items left to us by our father?  “No,” answered the executor.  “Your father bequeathed you a fantastic fortune, but he didn’t leave you even one basket or piece of luggage.  That you must provide for yourself.”

Our Father granted us the most precious legacy – His Torah.  However, we must provide the proper receptacle for that inheritance.  By refining our character and freeing ourselves from the shackles of decadence and narcissism, we shape ourselves into fitting vehicles to bear our Godly heritage.  ~ The Pirkei Avos Treasury

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Hurtful Words

“Our Sages taught that hurtful words are, in fact, a graver sin than defrauding another of money.” – Rambam

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Constantly Giving

Constantly giving to another will increase one’s love for that person.  A stranger is someone you have not yet helped.  Doing acts of chesed for everyone fills your world with friends and loved ones. ~ R’ Eliyahu Dessler zt”l

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All Due to His Wife

“Metaphor from the Talmud: A man works in the field and brings home wheat — but shall he then eat wheat? Of what use is his toil? His wife grinds the wheat into flour and makes bread.  So too, the tasks of life: A man’s spiritual accomplishments only become realized in the material world due to his wife.” Tzvi Freeman

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Half our Goal

“It is the nature of man that he never attains half his goal. When he hits the 100 mark, he must make 200. And when he attains 200, he demands of himself 400.  So, too, must you always be growing in your acts of kindness.” ~ Lubavitcher Rebbe

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A Wise Man

A kluger vaist vos er zogt, a nar zogt vos er vaist – A wise man knows what he says, a fool says what he knows.

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The Concentration of R’ Yehuda Zev Segal zt”l

Every berachah that Reb Yehuda Zev Segal zt”l recited was said with utmost concentration.  The Rosh Yeshivah kept cards in his pocket on which were written the various berachos for foods, so that he could always recite them from a text, for this would help him concentrate.  “Asher Yatzar,” too, was always said from a text. Every word of his davening was recited slowly and intensely, as if it were Nei’lah, the concluding tefillah of Yom Kippur.

It happened once that a certain visitor took the liberty of writing his name in the margin of the Rosh Yeshivah’s siddur next to the blessing of Atah Chonein so that the Rosh Yeshivah would have him in mind when beseeching Hashem for the gift of Torah wisdom.  Other talmidim took note of this and entered their names as well.  Time had passed and the visitor regretted what he had done and asked forgiveness of the Rosh Yeshivah.

The Rosh Yeshivah told him “Believe me, until this very moment, I was unaware that you had written your name in my siddur.  You see, when I daven, I do not permit my eyes to wander anywhere; I look only at the word that I am reciting.  I don’t see the margin of the page…”

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The Poetry Recital

I heard this story from Rabbi Efrem Schwalb a few years ago and thought it was worth repeating:

Years ago in London, a poetry recital was taking place in a large auditorium. The finalists in the competition were given one last poem to recite – the twenty third Psalm.

The obvious winner was a young gentleman whose rendition of the Psalm was perfect. “The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want… He restores my soul… and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.” The audience responded with thunderous applause.

Suddenly, an elderly, Eastern European Jew called out, “Judges! Would it be alright if I had a chance to say the Psalm?” The judges were amused and invited him up to the stage. In his heavy accent, the gentleman made his way through the  kapitel (chapter). A reverent hush fell over the crowd, and many people were moved to tears.

The winner received his prize but followed the old man out to the street. “Rabbi, you know that you really deserve the prize.” “Not at all,” he responded. “I wasn’t competing. You did a fine job and it belongs to you.” The young man continued: “But rabbi, perhaps you could explain to me why it is that when I concluded the Psalm the audience cheered, but when you concluded many people were crying?”

The alter Yid replied: “The difference between you and me is that…I know the Shepherd.”

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The Giving Relationship

In a home, in a relationship, in any situation where people work together, each side has to give.

What you give is not so important. How you give is.

You have to want to give. ~ R’ Tzvi Freeman

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What is Everyone Waiting for?

“The soul above awaits the time it will be privileged to descend into a body for the soul senses how much it can accomplish here below in this physical world–it can attain the level of “delighting with Hashem!  So why procrastinate in attending to our Avoda, which our soul so patiently awaited–what is everyone waiting for?!” ~ The Lubavitcher Rebbe

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