We Forget

“Do you know why we make so many mistakes and feel so guilty?  Because we forget how holy we are.” ~  R’ Shlomo Carlebach zt”l

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Blessing in the Home

“Blessing is only found in a person’s home because of the merits of his wife.” ~ Bava Metzia 59a

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God Only Requires Words

The people of Israel say, “We are poor.  We have no sacrifices to bring as an offering.”

God replies, “I need only words, as it is written, ‘Take with you words’ (Hosea 14:2).  This refers to words of Torah.”

The people say, “But we do not know words of Torah.”

God replies, “Weep and pray, and I will receive you.”

~ Midrash, Shemos Rabbah – from A Call to the Infinite.

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Never Despair

“No one should ever give up hope for himself, however far he has fallen.  Even if he is lying in the very pit of hell, he must never despair of God’s help.  Even there he can draw close to the Almighty.” ~ R’ Nachman of Breslev zt”l

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What Can I Do for You?

“The Chofetz Chaim was once overheard making an accounting with God, as it were.  He said ‘Dear God, what have You done for me, and what have I done for You?  You have given me the privilege of writing the Mishneh Berurah, Chofetz Chaim, Shemiras HaLashon, Likutei Halachos, and many other sefarim.  What have I done for You?  Nothing!  Please dear God, give me an opportunity to do something for You.’ 

To the Chofetz Chaim, whatever he did was only to be expected, and was undeserving of any reward for himself.” ~ The Pirkei Avos Treasury 

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We Were as Dreamers

“We say in Shir Ha-ma’alot (psalms 126) [before bentching on Shabbos], ‘When God returned the captivity of Zion we were as dreamers.’  The evil we experienced in the long night of galut, and which we thought at the time so real and so fearsome, will turn out to have been nothing but a bad dream.  The reality, as we shall then see, is and always was nothing but goodness and love.  ~ R’ Eliayahu Dessler

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A Higher Expectation

“Just as we expect more from those who are blessed with materialistic wealth, so do we expect more from those rich in knowledge.  Whereas the spiritually poor do mitzvos simply, those who are enriched with ruchnius are expected to perform the same mitzvos precisely, and with extra prudence.” ~ Chafetz Chaim as quoted in Torah Tavlin

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Don’t Compare Your Holiness to Others

“Rabbi Avraham Pam explains: If a Jew looks around him and sees a world of immorality, deceit, and fraud, if he often encounters underhandedness and an insatiable pursuit of material goals, he can easily rationalize to himself and say, “With the performance of even one mitzvah, I have already achieved a much greater status than those in the secular world.”  He might even become smug with the feeling that he has achieved a degree of holiness far beyond those who do no mitzvos at all.  Therefore, God says, “You shall be holy, for I, Hashem your God, am holy (Leviticus 19.2).  Don’t compare your holiness to the holiness of others; you are children of God and are answerable to a higher standard.  Be holy, for I am holy.  Use me, not the nations of the world, as a barometer, and then you will know what is expected of you.”  ~ The Pirkei Avos Treasury

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No Such Thing as Defeat

There’s no such thing as defeat.

There’s always another chance. To believe in defeat is to believe that there is something, a certain point in time that did not come from Above.

Know that G‑d doesn’t have failures. If things appear to worsen, it is only as part of them getting better. We fall down only in order to bounce back even higher. ~ R’ Tzvi Freeman

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G-d Open my Lips

Rav Yonason Eibschitz explains why we say ‘Hashem sefosai tiftach – G-d open my lips’ right before shemona esrei.  He explains that when man stands before the Master of the Universe, one’s vocal cords should freeze in paralysis, out of fear. We therefore offer a special prayer that G-d should grant us the fortitude to open our lips in prayer.  ~ Praying with Fire

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