The Right Attitude Towards Competitors 

Reb Zalman Brizel zt’l had a bakery in Meah Shearim where one of his employees learned
the tricks of the trade and opened his own bakery nearby.

Not only was Reb Zalman not angry, he even offered him advice on how to improve his business.  

Upon being asked why he did this, Reb Zalman replied, “My parnassah was pre-determined on Rosh Hashanah, so he isn’t taking anything away from me. In fact, he is saving me time and work because he is taking some of my customers while, simultaneously, I’m not losing money. So, if he helps me, shouldn’t I have hakaras hatov and help him, too?”

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What are you Preparing for?

Some people spend a lifetime making preparations for this world and forget that their whole purpose of being in this world is to prepare for the next world. 

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Dating Advice

Upon being asked whether a Yeshiva student should insist on marrying the daughter of a talmid chacham, HaRav Avigdor Nebenzahl replied, “It is certainly commendable, but what is more important is to insist that your wife is the wife of a talmid chacham.” 

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In Your Own Backyard

Everyone has a treasure in his own backyard.

Why search elsewhere for it?

~ R’ Simcha Bunim of Peshischa zt”l

Don’t forget – Hashem equips you with your exact needs to fulfill your mission in life.

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Ups and Downs

Everyone has ups and downs in life.

But one who properly fulfills the mitzvah of viohavta lereiacha kamocha, has a lot more ups and a lot more downs.

Because when you truly care about one another, you celebrate with him or her as if it is your own simcha and you feel his or her pain as if it is your own pain.

~ R’ Yisroel Feld

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Can’t Only Learn

That scholar with his nose in books, he learns and learns.

But does he know his wife doesn’t feel well?

That his child’s heart is broken?

~ The Kotzker Rebbe zt”l

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Be the Change

Sometimes things don’t go the way we’d like them to. So we can grumble and join the ranks of complainers, or we can do something different: we can try to create change.

A friend of mine was a major in the United States Army and he often quotes his commander, who would say, “Don’t come to me with problems; come to me with solutions.”

The Mishna states: וּבְמָקוֹם שֶׁאֵין אֲנָשִׁים, הִשְׁתַּדֵּל לִהְיוֹת אִישׁ

In a place where no one is stepping forward to take responsibility, you should try to be that person.

When there’s no one to get the job done, it’s time to step up.

How?

By changing your mindset and realizing that you can make a difference. You can be the change you want to see.

~ R’ Tzvi Sytner

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Tu B’Shvat

Believe me when I tell you, I never simply pluck a leaf or a blade of grass or any living thing, unless I have to.

Every part of the vegetable world is singing a song and breathing forth a secret of the divine mystery of the Creation.

~ Rav Abraham Kook zt”l (Wisdom of the Mystics)

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Question of the Week #6

I know that not everyone uses WhatsApp, but for those of you who do:

What are your favorite Torah related WhatsApp Groups?

Please share your answers using this form: https://forms.gle/PEin8yXctpx1DecP9

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How is it possible?

How can a nation go from ashes, the point of death, and then half a century later, they’re a superpower?

It’s because we are Hashem’s people.

Five guys on a tour to the north are just five guys on a tour to the north, but if they’re soldiers on a mission, then they’re not just five guys.  They represent the entire battalion, the whole army, all of the nation.

We walked out of Mitzrayim and were charged with a mission.  When you stand for Hashem, His presence is within you.  You represent Him and His whole army. 

~ Charlie Harary

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