“If I say to G-d, ‘I want to build a highway between people’s hearts, because I know how to do it,’ G-d says, ‘Don’t call me, I’ll call you.    But, if I say to G-d, ‘I have no idea how to do it, but I am just so desperate that there should be a highway,’ G-d says, ‘You are the one to do it.'”  R’ Shlomo Carlebach