Anger at your faults is arrogance – and of a very self-destructive form. Every failure becomes pain, every pain becomes a gruesome punishment.
Punishment for what? For having been born imperfect. As though you made yourself, as though you are your own god.
A humble person is an objective person, capable of looking at his faults, seeing what needs to change, and saying “This is what G-d gave me to work with.” ~ R’ Tzvi Freeman