When it comes to marrying off children, many people are worried: “How will we manage to put together so much money?” This isn’t a new problem. It was around for generations. But Hashem helps. Gird yourself with bitachon, and see the wonders Hashem will do for you.
Once, two mechutanim came to the Chazon Ish zt’l. Each of them argued that the other one should pay the lion’s share of their children’s upcoming wedding.
When they left, the Chazon Ish said to his relative, Reb Shmaryahu Greineman zt’l, “Do you know what they were arguing about? They were debating who should receive Hashem’s brachos. Each one said the other one should receive Hashem’s brachos…” Because Hashem blesses and helps those who are obligated to pay for a wedding. ~ R’ Elimelech Biderman