Don’t despise small acts.
Nothing is small, because everything you do for Hashem and for other people is forever. ~ R’ Avigdor Miller zt”l
Don’t despise small acts.
Nothing is small, because everything you do for Hashem and for other people is forever. ~ R’ Avigdor Miller zt”l
My mission on this word is to recognize the void – inside and outside – and then fill it. ~ The Kotzker Rebbe zt”l
People were coming to the wise man, every time complaining about the same problems. One day he told them a joke and everyone roared in laughter. After a couple of minutes he told them the same joke and only a few of them smiled. When he told the same joke for the third time no one laughed anymore.
The wise man smiled and said:
“You can’t laugh at the same joke over and over. So why are you always crying about the same problem?”
Rav Avigdor Miller, zt”l, once delineated ten steps that should be practiced every day, and by doing so, it will lead one to reach greatness.
1) Say at least once, “I love you Hashem”.
2) Spend thirty seconds thinking about Olam Haba.
3) At least one time during the day, perhaps during meal times, acknowledge that your actions are L’Sheim Shamayim, that what you are doing is for the sake of Heaven.
4) In Birchos HaShachar, when saying the brachah of “Malbish Arumim”, that Hashem provides us with clothing, spend thirty seconds contemplating the great gift of garments, including the benefits of pockets, buttons, and shoelaces.
5) Spend one minute thinking over our actions that were done yesterday (Cheshbon HaNefesh, making an accounting of one’s deeds).
6) Sit down on the floor in privacy for one second to think about the loss of Yerushalayim, especially when reciting the words, “If I forget you, Yerushalayim…”
7) Do one act of kindness a day that no one, other than Hashem, knows about.
8) Encourage somebody- you will thereby be imitating Hashem, Who lifts up the humble.
9) Once a day, when looking at another person, think to yourself, “I’m seeing a Tzelem Elokim, someone who is made in the image of Hashem.”
10) Just like Hashem’s image shines on us, smile at others! Rav Miller recommended doing these exercises for thirty days, and advised, “If you feel a little tired out, take a break and come back slowly. To become great, you have to be extreme!” ~ Divrei Chizuk
A true Ba’al Teshuvah – a master of personal change – is an entirely different human being from the individual who previously did the things they came to regret ~ Rambam – Hilchos Teshuva 2:4
The day before Yom Kippur is considered a semi-Yom Tov, and it is a mitzvah to eat two festive meals on this day. Indeed, Rabbi Chiya said “One who eats on Erev Yom Kippur is considered by the Torah as meritorious as if he fasted on both the ninth and the tenth of Tishrei.” ~ Berachos 5b
A G’mar Chasima Tovah to you and your family!
It is forbidden to speak lashon hara even to one person. If one speaks to several people, his sin is magnified according to the size of his audience.