Loss

We don’t like it when we lose something.  We think, “What gain could there be in loss?”

But loss, too, is a way of growth.

Much growth is simply learning to let go, to loosen the cord that ties you to your “stuff.” Such as this thing you are missing.

Only once that is achieved can you emerge onto a higher plane, a plane wide enough to contain more light and life than before.  The divine energy that before brought a loss, can now bring – openly and clearly – a blessing and much gain. ~ R’ Tzvi Freeman

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3 Point Formula for Success

  1. Talk to Hashem on a daily basis, and ask Him to help you fulfill your aspirations.
  2. Try your best at whatever you’re doing.
  3. Accept your current situation happily and with love.

~ The Garden of Emuna

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Major Impairments

If, chas v’shalom, a person’s speech or hearing became damaged, it would cause him more anguish than the loss of any organ, since these two faculties are so crucial.  All the more so would a person suffer great anguish in the Wold to Come if his powers of speech or hearing were impaired there as a result of his sins.  How much humiliation would he suffer!  All would know the reason for his disabilities – that he spoke words of lashon hara and controversy during his time in this world. ~ Shemiras Halashon – The Chofetz Chaim

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A Unique Form of Life Insurance – Great Story

Chesed is a unique form of life insurance. Not only does it protect the doer, but it safeguards his offspring in ways that sometimes – as in the following story – become abundantly clear.

The story takes place in a small Hungarian town, several decades before World War II. The townspeople employed a rebbi to teach their boys, but they were unable to pay him any money. Instead, the parents took turns providing meals for him and his family. After many years, the rebbi’s wife died, his children moved away and he was left alone. No longer able to teach, he was replaced by a new rebbi. Those who had brought meals to the old rebbi turned their attention to the new one. Only one woman felt a continued obligation to support the man who had taught her children so well, albeit many years ago. For five years, until the end of the rebbi’s life, she repeated her daily climb of the stairs to his small apartment to bring him his lunch.

Time passed, and the war quickly crushed the small Jewish community’s tenuous existence. The woman, however, was saved from witnessing the worst of the destruction; she died of natural causes. Most of the townspeople were herded away to their deaths, but this woman’s grandchildren somehow found help. They were led to a small apartment, where a brave gentile woman risked her life to hide them behind a false wall that she built for them. She provided their meals, each day weaving a tortuous path among the shops to purchase only small portions that would attract no suspicion. Her apartment sustained several raids and searches, but her “fugitives” were never discovered.

When they emerged from hiding, the children learned that their refuge had once belonged to a different tenant – the old rebbi their grandmother had fed. The same stairs the gentile woman climbed, bearing their provisions, had born their grandmother upward as well, on a mission of chesed that, decades later, saved their lives. ~ Chofetz Chaim – Loving Kindness
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A chiddush

When you want to come up with new ideas in the Torah, you must concentrate on one particular subject.  Take a verse or a subject, and review it many times, hammering on the door until it is opened for you.  Sometimes a thought flashes through your mind and is then forgotten.  You must be a man of valor, pursuing it until it is recaptured. ~ R’ Nachman of Breslov

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A Frame

What connoisseurs of this world we would be if God had only placed it in a frame.  Let our minds, then, frame the world! ~ R’ Shraga Silverstein zt”l

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Forgetfulness

The world considers forgetfulness a bad thing, but in my view, it has certain advantages. Without forgetfulness, it would be impossible to serve God.  If a person remembered all the difficulties he has been through, and all the challenges he faces, he would never find the strength to serve God.  Thoughts of those events would completely unsettle him.  But now, these pains can be forgotten.  This is very important advice for following the way of God. ~ R’ Nachman of Breslov

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Pride

Should you unwittingly sin, you can be sure that you possess pride.  This is to show you that you are not yet a Tzaddik.  ~ R’ Nachman of Breslov

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Steal Time

A person has to steal time from his other activities to study Torah. ~ R’ Nachman of Breslov

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Relating a Failure to do a Mitzvah

You are forbidden to tell others that a person failed to fulfill mitzvos.  ~ Guard Your Tongue

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