“Even a Sigh” + Something New Going Forward

A wealthy and learned man once came to the Chafetz Chaim to buy some sefarim.  He asked for a copy of all his works, except for one.  It seems that he did not want to buy Shemiras Halashon, which deals with the sins of forbidden speech.

He explained that “I have extensive dealings with many people in the course of my business….  I am convinced that I could not possibly adhere to all the laws involved in guarding my speech, and this sefer would be of no use to me.”

The Chafetz Chaim told him that he had gone to R’ Yisroel Salanter not long ago with this very problem. “I told him that I doubted whether my sefer would be of much value since businessmen would find it too difficult to abide by the laws of careful speech.”

“R’ Yisroel replied: ‘Even if you don’t succeed in evoking more than a sigh from a man who is aware of his sins, your toil in writing and publishing this work will have all been worthwhile.’ ”

On that note, I would like to try something different this year.   Although there are some fans of the yiddish quotes that I generally send out on Sundays, I think people would benefit more from learning the laws of Shmrias Halshon (forbidden speech), which is of the utmost importance.  I therefore will devote Sundays to this topic. With Hashem’s help, we will all be successful in learning the halachos and eliminating lashon hora.  

A good start would be to listen to the shiur included in the link below which probably had a bigger effect on me than any other shiur I have ever heard.  https://emunadaily.com/2014/05/26/power-of-speech-link-to-an-amazing-lecture/

 

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The Constitution

The American Constitution is great because it remains up to date.  However, it differs greatly from the Torah.  The Constitution must be amended in order to remain current.  We keep the Torah current by studying it deeply and understanding how its principles and guidelines apply to our times perfectly. ~ Torah Tavlin

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Understanding Hashem

When we discuss the essence of G-d, we are faced with a major problem.  We are forced to use our limited mental capacity to try to comprehend a boundless, omnipotent force.  This is not fully possible.  It is like expecting a fly to use its “brain” to solve an algebraic problem or to understand human psychology.  These phenomena are beyond the fly’s dimensions of comprehension.  Similarly, G-d is dimensions beyond what man can understand. ~ Levhavin Ulishaskel

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Desire

A desire fulfilled is less pleasurable than the absence of desire. ~ Da Es Atmecha (Getting to Know Your Self)

I just want to point out that this line is so so so deep and sums up many pages of this holy seifer.  Read it again, think about it and internalize it.

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The Shabbos Project

For those of you who have not heard, there has been a lot of buzz over “the shabbos project” which is taking place in just 2 weeks from now, all over the world, on October 24 and 25, 2014.   I first learned about it several months ago after watching this inspirational video – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xhfe-MZcCjE

For those of you who have never kept a shabbos, what an opportunity to do so!  I have no doubt that it will be one of the most meaningful experiences of your lives.   You can learn all about it on this fantastic website which tells you everything you need to know  http://www.theshabbosproject.org/

For those of you who keep shabbos each week, there must be someone you know (a friend, neighbor or someone from work…) who would be interested in keeping it this one shabbos as well.   Don’t hesitate.  Get involved.  Let’s not let this opportunity go by without each of us making a difference.

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The Power of Simcha

A chasid once traveled to Lublin to spend the yamim noraim with the Chozeh of Lublin.  When it was his turn to introduce himself, he was shocked when the Chozeh told him to go home right away.  Thinking that he misunderstood, the chasid presented himself the next day.

“What?  You’re still here,” the Rebbi exclaimed, “I told you to go home.”  Deeply dejected, the chasid set out on his journey home.   On the way, he stopped at an inn to spend the night.  There he met a group of Chasidim traveling to the Chozeh.   After a few rounds of l’chaim, the Chasidim started to dance, drawing the chasid into their circle.  Round and round they went, joyfully singing Hashem’s praises.  Gradually, the chasid’s gloom turned into simcha.  At the height of their ecstasy, the Chasidim turned to him, “Come on back with us to the Rebbi.”  The chasid decided to give it another try.  Perhaps the Chozeh would welcome him this time.  To his great surprise, the Chozeh was delighted to see him, embracing him warmly, the Chozeh declared, “A Rebbi cannot accomplish the miracles Chasidim achieve through simcha.  He went on to explain, “When you came to me the first time, I saw Heaven had decreed that you will die shortly.  I sent you home because I did not want you to die here on yom tov, but because of your simcha, you caused the Heavenly decree to be annulled,” and indeed the chasid lived until a ripe, old age.

The Skulener said, “This story represents the underlying story of Simchas Torah.  After our intense prayers of the yamim noraim and after the decree was sealed, we dance on Simchas Torah, for even if the decree was not favorable, it is possible to reverse it and change it into goodness and blessing through the power of simcha. ~ Divrei Chizzuk

 

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Good Deeds

One should not perform good deeds in order to live; one should live in order to perform good deeds. ~ R’Menachem Mendel of Kotzk

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You Can Help

The very fact you know about someone who is in trouble means that in some way you are able to help. Otherwise, why would this knowledge have entered your world? ~ Tzvi Freeman

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Chumros

Halacha must be followed without compromise, but chumros must be carefully evaluated.
Am I emotionally and physically able to follow these chumros without losing appreciation for the mitzvah?
Rav Yerucham Levovitz, in Daas Torah, Bereishis pp. 19-20,writes that one may not accept upon himself additional chumros if they will become burden.
A chumrah is healthy if it increases one’s love for avodas HaShem; if not, it is not only unhealthy but dangerous.”
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No Debt

Der Aibishter Baruch Hu, blybt nit kayn baal chov, far yeder guter zach vos a Yid toot, tzolt ayr bemaytav mit bunay, chayei umezonay revichay ~ R’ Yosef Yitzchak of Lubavitch zt”l

G-d does not remain in debt, for every good thing a person does,  he is recompensed grandly by G-d, with children, health and livelihood, in abundance.

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