Understand

Man wants to believe in himself and to understand God, when in fact he should believe in God and understand himself. ~ The Alter of Norvordok, R’ Yosef Yozel Hurwitz zt”l

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Speaking Loshon Hora to a Group of People

You are forbidden to relate loshon hora to a single individual or to a group.  The larger the group that hears your loshon hora, the graver your sin, since the victim will be degraded in the eyes of more people.  Furthermore, a larger number of people have sinned by their hearing your loshon hora. ~ Guard Your Tongue

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Perspective

Standing by his wagon, the wagon driver donned tallis and tefillin and recited the morning prayers. In the midst of his prayers, he realized that his wagon was broken. He became occupied with fixing his wagon and was distracted from his prayers.

Rabbi Levi Yitzchak of Berditchev, who is legendary for judging favorably, noticed this scene. He raised his hands toward heaven and proclaimed, “G-d Almighty – see how wonderful Your children are. Even while working, they pray to You!” ~ Heard from Zevi Raskin in Chicken Soup to Warm the Neshama

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Talking to God

When I pray, I talk to God;

When I learn, God talks to me.

~ The Rogotchover Gaon, R’ Yosef Rosen zt”l

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The Entirety of Man

This is the entirety of man: Not for himself was man created, but instead to help others to the extent of his ability to do so. ~ R’ Chaim of Volozhin zt”l

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Government

R’ Yisroel Salanter used to pray for the welfare of the government.  When he happened to be in a synagogue where the prayer was not read, he read it himself.  ~ Sparks of Mussar

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Going the wrong way on an Escalator

If a man is not ascending, he is inevitably descending. ~ The Vilna Gaon

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My Shabbos with a Mekubal

This past shabbos I had the honor and pleasure of hosting Rav Shimon Ben Dovid shlita, a mekubal (kabbalist) from Netivot, Israel.  This is a man who receives around 80 phone calls a day from big business people, brain surgeons and others asking for his special advice.   It was amazing to see over shabbos what he was able to know about a person just based on his or her hebrew name and then be able to advise them accordingly.  It is one thing to spend 10 minutes with such a mekubal, but to spend an entire shabbos and motzei shabbos with him was truly a gift and very special.

Anyway, after shabbos, someone mentioned “Emuna Daily” to the rav.  He then turned to me and told me to post the following:

לאהוב מישהו פרושו לראותו כמו שאלוקים ברא אותו

“To love someone means to see him as God created him.”

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When You Include Yourself

Adding something derogatory about yourself when you disparage others does not mitigate the fact that you have spoken loshon hora.  This includes instances when you mention that you and a friend both did the exact same action or have the same fault, and you begin by talking about yourself.

For example:

“Ben and I shoplifted when we were younger.”

“Nobody in our group studies Torah Properly.”

“I don’t give enough charity, but neither does Mr. Stern.” 

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Oy! My appoligies

You may have noticed that the story about the Chofetz Chayim accidentally went out this morning instead of tonight.  I am sorry about that.  I set it before shabbos to go out at 8:30, but accidentally left it as AM instead of PM.   I just noticed and didn’t want you to get the wrong idea.

Shavua Tov!

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