Segulah for Chanukah

There is a minhag brought by the Kedushas Levi, R’ Levi Yitzchok M’barditchev in the name of the Ramban and the Ba’al Shem Tov to say Vi’hi Noam and Yoshev Bi’saser (Tehillim 91) seven times following the lighting, as a segulah for a protection for the coming year.

Some also have the minhag to say; Mizmor Shir Chanukas Habayis (Tehillim 30), Lamenatzeach B’niginos  (Tehillim 67) in the form of the Menorah (as printed in the back of many siddurim and tehillim), Shir La’maalos (Tehillim 121), Mizmor Le’soda (Tehillim 100), Nishmas Kol Chai, and A’na B’koach 7 times.

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Whatever you truly want!

Hashem gives everyone what they really want.  The tzaddik (righteous person) wants the reward for his mitzvot in the World to Come and the punishment for his misdeeds in this world, which he knows is anyway transient and insignificant.  On the other hand, the rasha (wicked person) desires nothing so much as material achievements and if he were consulted, he would certainly prefer the reward of his mitzvot to be paid in currency of this world: gratification, riches and honor.  He is not particularly interested in the World to Come, and if he has to suffer he would much prefer to postpone the suffering for a world about whose existence he is in any case not completely convinced. ~ R’ Eliyahu Dessler zt”l

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What reveals a person’s real values?

That which excites a man, serves as a test by which his worth is recognized.  When after a banquet one man is enthusiastic over the words of Torah which had been spoken, another praises the songs, and a third lauds the food.  Each one’s praise indicates his worth.  ~ R’ Avigdor Miller zt”l

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Yiddish Proverb

Az Got vil nit geben, ken men zich alain nit nemen.  If God does not give, one cannot take.

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Toll Booth Attendants

“Last year I drove Shlomo Carlebach  to a concert engagement in Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania . After several minutes of conversation he asked if I would mind if he studied the Talmud for a while in silence. It was clear from his apologetic manner that he was fearful of offending me and appearing discourteous.  Knowing how hectic his life was and how rare the opportunity for private study must be, I assured him that I didn’t mind at all, and he should please go ahead. He opened the Gemara with an enraptured look and was quickly immersed in its study, intent on the words and oblivious of our surroundings. He seemed to be transported to a different world, a different dimension. However, each time we pulled up to one of the dozens of toll booths we passed that day, he would snap out of his reverie, close the Gemara, look up at the toll booth attendant, smile broadly, wave a greeting, and exchange a few warm words of friendship. No matter how ill-tempered or brusque the toll booth attendants appeared at the start, by the time Reb Shlomo had finished waving, smiling, and joking, they were transformed. After we passed each toll booth, Reb Shlomo would return to his Gemara, closing it again as we approached the next toll booth station. Despite his complete immersion in the text, he didn’t miss a single station or attendant. Reb Shlomo’s light touched and blessed them all.” ~ Holy Brother

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Inheritance

A group of orphans were to receive a large inheritance from their father, consisting of money and precious gems.  The executor of the estate instructed them to bring luggage to carry away their shares.  “What!” they exclaimed.  “Such a magnificent estate and we must bring suitcases?  Aren’t there any among the items left to us by our father?  “No,” answered the executor.  “Your father bequeathed you a fantastic fortune, but he didn’t leave you even one basket or piece of luggage.  That you must provide for yourself.”

Our Father granted us the most precious legacy – His Torah.  However, we must provide the proper receptacle for that inheritance.  By refining our character and freeing ourselves from the shackles of decadence and narcissism, we shape ourselves into fitting vehicles to bear our Godly heritage.  ~ The Pirkei Avos Treasury

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Hurtful Words

“Our Sages taught that hurtful words are, in fact, a graver sin than defrauding another of money.” – Rambam

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Constantly Giving

Constantly giving to another will increase one’s love for that person.  A stranger is someone you have not yet helped.  Doing acts of chesed for everyone fills your world with friends and loved ones. ~ R’ Eliyahu Dessler zt”l

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All Due to His Wife

“Metaphor from the Talmud: A man works in the field and brings home wheat — but shall he then eat wheat? Of what use is his toil? His wife grinds the wheat into flour and makes bread.  So too, the tasks of life: A man’s spiritual accomplishments only become realized in the material world due to his wife.” Tzvi Freeman

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Half our Goal

“It is the nature of man that he never attains half his goal. When he hits the 100 mark, he must make 200. And when he attains 200, he demands of himself 400.  So, too, must you always be growing in your acts of kindness.” ~ Lubavitcher Rebbe

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