Repair

“If you believe you can break something, have faith that you can repair it.” ~ R’ Nachman of Breslev zt”l

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The Greatest Friend

“The greatest friend is not somebody who loves you, but is somebody who really, really believes in you.” ~ R’ Shlomo Carlebach zt”l

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Too Much Leading to Too Little

In the town of Kelm, home of the famous Talmud Torah, which was the seed bed of the Mussar movement, there was a small general store for the use of the yeshiva students.  In order not to take anyone from his studies to tend the counter, the store operated on the honor system; customers took what they needed and left payment in a cash box.  After a while, it was found that there were overpayments in the box.  Hearing of this, the Alter (Elder), R’ Simcha Zissel, ordered that the store be closed.

He explained.  The reason there was too much money was probably because when the box did not have sufficient small change for customers, they would leave more money as a contribution.  But by the same token, it was possible that people accustomed not to pay the exact amount might one day find themselves with too little money for a purchase, and they would feel entitled to underpay, because they had sometimes overpaid.  This would be dishonest, and a situation that might encourage such a practice could not be continued.  ~ The Pirkei Avos Treasury

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Forbidden Talk

The following is drawn from the writings of the holy Alshich:

How can one speak before the King of kings with a mouth which utters forbidden talk? Would not God, as it were, respond, “Who is this shameful person who dares to beg forgiveness of his sins with a lowly tongue? Would he dare serve an earthly king with vessels which are covered with grime? Surely the king would punish him severely for such disgraceful service!”

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Small things

“Great things are not what is demanded from our generation. The previous generations did all that for us. We need only do the small things—but in a more difficult time.

For us, self-sacrifice could mean nothing more than a simple change of habit.” R’ Tzvi Freeman

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On Our Feet

“The kindness and special quality in G-d’s making man upright, to walk erectly, is that though he walks on the earth he sees the Heavens; not so with beasts that go on all fours; they see only the earth.” ~ The Tzemach Tzedek

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Two Pockets

“A man should have two pockets.  In one he should put the concept of ‘I am but dust and ashes,’ and in the other, ‘For me the world was created.” ~ R’ Menachem Mendel of Kotzk zt”l as quoted in Torah Tavlin

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Not What, but How!

If one gives his friend all the gifts in the world with a sour face, he has given him nothing.  But one who receives his friend with a cheerful face, even if he has given him nothing else, has given him the greatest gift in the world.” ~ Avos d’Rabbi Nosson

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How to Choose a Livelihood

“One who trusts in God chooses a source of livelihood that offers his body more rest, acquires for him a good name, affords him leisure for reflection, is most conducive to fulfilling his religious duties, and is in harmony with his beliefs.” ~ Chovos Halevovos

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No Reward for a Mitzva in this World ***

This past shabbos, I gave over a D’var Torah in shul and made reference to the following, which is one of the deepest teachings I have come across and a true “game changer” if taken to heart.  It is certainly longer than the typical quotes I post, but as I have said before, if it is long, I am only posting it because it is very worthwhile. 

R’ Dessler discusses the gemara in Kiddushin 39b, which states that “There is no reward for a mitzva in this world,” and the mishna in Avos which states that “One hour of satisfaction in the world to come is better than all the life of this world.”

He explains “all the life of this world” as follows:

We all know that life is a mixed blessing.  But during the course of a lifetime everyone has some measure of joy and happiness.  Let us collect these scattered hours and minutes of pleasure and enjoyment of a whole lifetime and concentrate them all into one minute.  We shall have an extremely intense experience of joy.  Now let us collect all the hours of pleasure experienced by all a person’s friends and acquaintances throughout all their lifetimes and imagine that we can concentrate them all into that same minute of that one person’s life.  The intensity of such an experience must surely be beyond description.

But let us go further and concentrate into that same minute all the happiness and joy experienced by all the people in that city throughout all their lifetimes.  And more still: let us add all the happiness of all the people in all the cities of that country, and every country; that is, all that is pleasant and delightful in the whole world during an entire generation; let us add it all up, concentrate it all into one minute and give it to one person.

…But this would still not be “all the life of this world.”  All the life of this world is arrived at only if we add together all the happiness experienced by all generations of men from the beginning of creation until the end of time.  If we were to take all this – all the good things of this world without any exception whatsoever – and give it all to one person at one time, then we should have achieved a degree of worldly happiness which is surely impossible to exceed.

And nevertheless “satisfaction in the world to come” exceeds it.  And what is meant by this “brief time of satisfaction (literally ‘cooling of the spirit’) in the world to come?  My revered father-in-law, Rabbi Nachum Velvel Sieff, use to explain that this refers to the lowest possible degree of satisfaction imaginable; something like the satisfaction derived by a poor man who passes by the kitchen of a great house where a banquet is being prepared and at least is able to enjoy the aroma of the food.  So in the world to come, a person who does not merit participation in the actual spiritual delights of that world but who is allowed, as it were, to pass by on the outside and to enjoy the “aroma” of the world to come – this is what the Mishna refers to as “satisfaction in the world to come” (that is to say, some slight satisfaction in that world, though not the delight of that world itself).  This represents the smallest reward, allocated for the smallest mitzva imaginable (for every mitzva has some reward in the world to come).  And it is this minimal satisfaction in the spiritual world which the Rabbis say cannot be equaled by all the accumulated joys and pleasures of this world from its beginning to its end!

It should now be perfectly clear why there can be “no reward for a mitzva in this world.”  The reason is simply that there is no mitzva, even the smallest, whose reward is not greater by far than all that this world can possibly contain.  The words are literally true:

There is not in [the whole of] this world [sufficient happiness, joy or reward capable of being] the reward of a mitzva [even the smallest mitzva one could possibly imagine]. ~ R’ Eliyahu Dessler in Strive For Truth

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