No Reason to get Angry

“At the time of a person’s anger, faith in G-d has left him.  For were he to believe that what happened to him was G-d’s doing, he would not be angry at all.  And while it is true that the person who is cursing him, or striking him, or causing damage to his property, possesses free choice, and is therefore guilty…nevertheless, as regards to the person harmed, this incident was already decreed in Heaven and G-d has many agents through whom He can act.” ~ Tanya, Igeres Hakodesh ch. 25

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Imagine Eternity – Please Read!!!

We all know that what we do here in this world will greatly affect our position for all eternity in the World to Come.  But what is eternity?

“One has to imagine an enormous mountain of sand situated next to the sea.  Every thousand years a great bird wings its way to the top of the mountain, takes one grain of sand in its beak and drops it into the sea.  Another thousand years must go by until the next grain is removed. 

The exercise it to attempt to visualize, or experience in imagination, the lapse of a thousand years.  The method is again to ‘break down’ the concept into its component parts. 

One begins by imagining the events of one day, then two days, a week, a month, two months, a year, etc., recapitulating each time, as far as possible, the temporal ‘feel’ of a day or a week, and resisting the temptation to relapse into conceptualization by saying ‘and so on’ or ‘as we said before.’  When one has ‘felt’ a year in this manner, one multiplies this progressively until one reaches a lifetime, a century, two centuries, three centuries…until one arrives at a thousand years.  Then – the bird comes and takes another grain from the mound.  But the whole mound is still there!  One has to start the whole process over again for the third grain, and for the fourth, and so on and so on.  (We have to ‘conceptualize’ here as we are describing the exercise, not doing it.)  And even when that unimaginably distant moment is reached and the last grain of sand disappears into the ocean – eternity has still hardly begun! 

If one allocates, say, ten minutes a day to this mental exercise, the empty words ‘eternal life’ will soon have acquired a ‘felt’ meaning which they certainly did not have before.”  R’ Eliyahu Dessler zt”l 

The reason this quote is so important to me is because it puts life into perspective.   We are here for a reason; to serve Hashem by following the Torah and doing as many mitzvos as possible.   We only have one shot, one opportunity, to make the most of it and will then have to live with our decisions for all eternity.   

When you realize how short a time we are here for and how long eternity is, how can you not make the most of it?

The Vilna Gaon says that as soon as a person dies, his or her neshama screams out a great cry of regret as it realizes that it can no longer perform any mitzvos. 

Let us not forget our purpose in life.  Let us use our time wisely so that we will not live with regret for all eternity. 

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True Emuna

“When a person has true emuna in Hashem, suffering does not break him and good fortune does not make him drunk with pleasure.”  ~ R’ Avraham Farbstein zt”l from Torah Tavlin

Tomorrow’s quote is a little longer, but if you take it to heart, it will change your life.

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Never Satiated

“One who truly loves to learn Torah for its own sake can never be tired of it and never be satiated.  Have you ever heard a drunk say that he’s had enough to drink?” ~ R’ Mordechai Gifter zt”l – Torah Tavlin

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Marriage

“Marriage is a microcosm of the soul’s descent into this world: If you are here looking for what you can get out of this world, then the world and all its trappings will only drag you down. But if you are looking for what you can give, then you, your part of the world, and your soul all are uplifted and filled with light. So too, when you enter a marriage: Look for what you can give, and reap harmony and love.” ~R’ Tzvi Freeman

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Heroes

Rabbi Yose said “He who responds Amen is greater than he who blesses.”

Rabbi Nehorai remarked “By heaven this is true.  The common soldiers begin the battle, and the heroes then come and win it.” ~ Talmud Berachos 53b

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Sincerely Happy

“Everything that happens to us in life is a precision Divinely-originated stimulus intended to facilitate our tikkun – our soul correction – and mission in life.  Realizing that Hashem is doing everything for our ultimate benefit – whether we understand how or not – enables us to be sincerely happy with our lot in life.” ~ The Garden of Peace, R’ Shalom Arush

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Matching Worlds

Depression, anxiety and pessimism damage the channels of blessing from Above.

The Zohar explains that there is a lower world—our world—and there is a higher world. Our world is meant to continuously receive from that higher world, but always according to our personal state of mind.

If we are glowing with joy and vitality, then that world shines upon us in its full glory.

But if it we wallow in depression and anxiety, then we can receive only the metered trickle that squeezes through a constricted channel.

That is why King David said, “Serve G‑d with joy!” Because your joy here draws upon you another joy from above. ~ R’ Tzvi Freeman

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Cast Your Burden Upon Hashem

“It is written, “Cast your burden upon God, and He will sustain you” (Psalms 55:23)

If a human being has a patron and goes to him once, he is received.  The second time he is also received, but the third time, he is refused an audience.  By the fourth time, no attention is paid to him at all.

This is not true by God.  No matter how many times you bother Him, He receives you.” ~ Midrash Tehillim 55:6 as quote by R’ Aryeh Kaplan zt”l in A Call to the Infinite

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A Lesson from Fish

“If one opens up a large fish, he will usually find a smaller fish inside.  However, the tail of the small fish is never facing in the same direction as the tail of the large fish.  On the contrary, the head of the small fish is always facing the tail of the large fish.  This indicates that the large fish did not make the effort to catch the small fish; the small fish swam right into the large fish.  So too, a person need not spend all his effort trying to earn a living; Hashem will make sure that his living will come right to him!” ~ R’ Meir Yechiel of Ostrovtze zt”l from Torah Tavlin

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