One of No Means

An advantage of trust in God, in respect to religious life, is that he who trusts in God, if he has means, will hasten to meet his monetary obligations to God and to man with a willing soul and generous spirit. If he has no means, he will regard his lack of money as one of God’s favors toward him, for he is free of the obligations to God and to man which money imposes, and he is spared the aggravation that is involved in maintaining it and managing it, as is to told of one of the pious, who used to say: “May God save me from distraction of the soul.” He was asked “What is distraction of the soul?”  He answered “Owning property in every port and every city.”  This is as [our Sages], of Blessed memory, said: The more possessions, the more worry.” (Avos 2:7);  “Who is wealthy? He who rejoices is in his portion.” (Avos 4:1). ~ Chovos Halevovos

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Each and Every Action

We must know that every action in the service of Hashem stands alone, it is the goal.  If we learn a minute’s worth of Torah, the world was created for that minute.  We daven and bolster ourselves with proper intent for a bit, Hashem created the world for that.  Hashem did not create the world for us to eat, drink and enjoy.  That is not the purpose.  The purpose is to fulfill the will of Hashem, even with little things.  One of the great tzaddikim said, “it was worthwhile for Hashem to create all of the worlds for one Jew to one time say, ‘Baruch Hu Uvaruch Shemo’ – ‘blessed is He [Hashem] and blessed is His name.’  ~ Rav Menachem Azolai as translated by Dov Elias

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Anxiety

Working for a living is good. It’s the anxiety over making a living that is not good.

Don’t let your inner self get involved in your business. That inner self must be preserved for fulfilling your purpose in life. Making lots of money is not your purpose in life. ~ R’ Tzvi Freeman

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Hashem is here, Hashem is there…

“Some people like to think that Hashem is truly everywhere.  But in reality, Hashem is where you let him in.”  ~ The Kotzker Rebbe (Torah Tavlin)

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Where am I?

“A person cannot begin to attain a goal if he doesn’t know where he currently is. How can you look at a map and reach Chicago if you don’t know whether you’re in New York or Denver? What direction do you go, east or west? We must therefore know where we are in order to know where we are going.

Did we create ourselves? Who created us and for what purpose? Such basic questions enable us to know where we are. Most people never ask themselves such questions and are therefore utterly lost. How can we possibly know what path to pursue if we don’t know what we’re doing here on earth?” ~ The Garden of Peace by R’ Shalom Arush

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Quality over Quantity

“Chazal explains that one will be asked [after life in this world], ‘did you establish set times for Torah study?’ He will not be asked, ‘How much Torah did you study?,’ because better is the deliberate study of five chapters with pleasantness than ten [chapters] with pressure…” ~ Mekor Chaim

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Simple Path to Joy

You ask, “How can I be happy if I am not?”

True, you can’t control the way you feel, but you do have control over your conscious thought, speech and actions.

Do something simple: Think good thoughts, speak good things, behave the way a joyful person behaves—even if you don’t fully feel it inside. Eventually, the inner joy of the soul will break through.  ~ R’ Tzvi Freeman

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Don’t Take it For Granted

“Not taking for granted all the good we have is the key to happiness.  For if we don’t appreciate what we have, we will never appreciate what we are going to get as we will get used to it as well.” ~ R’ Moshe Meir Weiss

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Something to Say at Your Seuda

I heard this last year from R’ Shalom Axelrod.  Hopefully, I will do it justice.  

There are two times in the Torah that Parshas Zachor, the story of Amalek, is discussed at length.  However, they are each preceded by two distinct parshas.

In Parshas Beshalach (which we read this morning), Parshas Zachor comes right after the Jews complained about the lack of water.  They questioned where Hashem was.  Immediately after this, Amalek attacks.

In Parshas Ki Seitzei (which we read yesterday), Parshas Zachor comes right after the laws of being honest in business (the Torah teaches us not to have two different sized weights so we don’t come to cheat anyone).

The Kli Yakar explains that these are precisely the two times that Amalek comes to destroy us; when we have a lack of emuna (as the Jews did when they complained about the lack of water) and when we are not honest and united with our fellow Jews.

In the Megilla, it is stated that Haman approaches Achashveirosh and explains why they should take this opportunity to annihilate the Jews once and for all.  One of the reasons he gives Achashveirosh is that the Jews are “Miphurod bein haamim” which means dispersed or “divided among the people.”   As a descendant of Amalek, Haman knew that this was an opportune time to strike the Jews since they were divided, and when the Jews are divided, that is a time that Amalek can destroy them.

Interestingly, if you look at the pasuk right before the parsha of Amalek in Beshalach, it tells us that this all took place in Rephidim.  Rephidim has the same root as “miphurod”, the word Haman used in the Megilla to describe the Jews as “divided.”  Therefore, what was Esther’s solution to Haman’s evil decree to destroy the Jews?  She said to gather the Jews together, fast together and daven to Hashem.   That is because when we have Emuna and our Bein Adam Lechaveiro (matters between each other) is where it should be, Amalek cannot harm us.

Happy Purim!

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Pure Faith on Purim

“Rational reasoning is used year-round as a means to emunah – belief in Hashem.  Once a year, however, on Yom Tov of Purim, we must strip away all traces of reasoning – Ahd DiLo Yadah – and serve Hashem on pure faith alone.” ~ R’ Chaim Shmulevitz zt”l (Torah Tavlin)

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