More than any other Sin

Hashem is more exacting with the sin of lashon hara than with any other sin.  As Rebbe Shimon bar Yochai taught in the Zohar: “Hashem is prepared to forgive anything except lashon hara.” ~ Chofetz Chaim

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Use a lot of Water

The gemara in Shabbos 62b states that “One who belittles (degrades) the mitzvah of washing hands before eating bread will become poor.”  On a more positive note, the gemara continues with a statement from Rav Chisda who explains that he always poured a lot of water when washing before eating, and Hashem rewarded him by making him wealthy.

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Falling in Love

Fall in love and you can fall out of love. Create love and it will last forever. ~ R’ Tzvi Freeman

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Envy

Envy destroys peace of mind and happiness.  An envious person’s life is full of suffering and resentment.  He is never happy with what he has.  There are many people who could really enjoy life, but they have one big problem: When they see that others are wealthier, they lose their peace of mind. ~ R’ Michel Berenbaum zt”l as quoted in Torah Tavlin

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Broad Shoulders

G‑d does not give his creations anything that they cannot handle. ~ Avodah Zara 3a

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Holiness in the Business World

One who works has the advantage of being able to see Divine providence in the “coincidences” that abound in the business world. He who works actualizes the goal of creation–to make the material world a Divine home. This can be achieved only by one who deals directly with the material world in a sanctified manner. Thus it’s the destiny of most not to be immersed entirely in the “tent of Torah,” since it is only through sanctified interaction with the material world that the purpose of creation is realized. – Lubavitcher Rebbe

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But…I never did this!

Many people on the day of accounting will be shown a list of their meritorious deeds. Failing to recognize some of them, they will say, “We never did this!” They will be told that the deeds were done by people who spoke derogatory about them.

Similarly, when those who spoke derogatory find that deeds which they had performed are not accounted for, they will wonder what has become of them. They will be told, “They were removed from your account and credited to that of the person about whom you spoke derogatorily.”

In addition, they will find records of evil actions that they never did. When they say, “We never did this,” they will be informed that those actions were debited to them because they had spoken badly about someone. ~ Chovos Halevavos

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The Alter of Novardok’s Candle

One night as R’ Yosef Yozel Hurwitz, the Alter of Novardok, was sitting and learning in the house of solitude in the woods, his last candle burned out.  R’ Yosefl Yozel was very upset about the bitul Torah, but he had complete bitochon that something would turn up very soon.  He opened the door and went outside, and at that very moment a stranger came up to him, handed him a candle and disappeared.

For 25 years R’ Yosef Yozel saved the candle as a remembrance of the miracle and proof of the power of bitochon.  Then, in a fire that broke out in Novardok, the candle was lost.  R’ Yosef Yozel took the loss as a sign from Heaven that no proof of the power of bitochon is necessary. Furthermore, he learned from it that even getting excited about the miracle shows a lack of bitochon, for a person should feel the naturalness of miracles and the meticulousness of nature.  ~ Sparks of Mussar
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Greater than Charity

Acts of loving-kindness are greater than charity in three ways:
Acts of loving-kindness can be done through personal action as well as with money;
they can be given to rich and poor alike; and
they can be performed for both the living and the dead. ~ Talmud Sukkah 49b
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Who do you love?

We love those for whom we do. ~ R’ Eliyahu Dessler zt”l

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