Who is a Chasid?

Who is a Chasid?

One who does not make what is of secondary importance the main thing, nor the main thing secondary.  ~ The Kotzker Rebbe zt”l

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Sensitivity

“One who mocks the dead is scorning his Maker” (Proverbs 17).  The Gemora states that a person who comes within 4 cubits of a grave must hide his tzitzis lest he mock the dead, who cannot perform the mitzvah.

Now imagine that we are going to daven at the graves of the tzadikim.  We are certainly free of any thoughts of scorning them.  And yet our Sages ordered us to hide our tzitzis.

How much more so when we walk among the living, who are sensitive to every nuance of another’s behavior toward them, should we take care not to cause them any shame or embarrassment, for we would thereby be scorning their Maker.  ~ R’ Nosson Zvi Finkel zt”l

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Never Lost

A Jew is never lost on his journey.  Wherever he finds himself, God has a reason for placing him there. ~ R’ Mordechai Pogremansky zt”l

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The Gossiper

Regarding the gossiper does Hashem say: “He and I cannot dwell together in this world.” ~ Talmud Arachin 15b

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Before Entering the House

Rav Shlomo Zalman Aurbach was once walking home with a talmid who noticed him straightening his frock (coat) and adjusting his hat before entering his house.  The talmid couldn’t help asking, “Is the Rebbe expecting a special visitor?”  Rav Shlomo Zalman said no.  “Is the Rebbe fixing himself up for the Rebbetzin?”

“No,” he answered.

“So why is the Rebbe adjusting his hat and coat?” the talmid asked.  Rav Shlomo Zalman explained by quoting the gemara, “When a man and wife enjoy marital harmony in their home, the Shechinah dwells in their home, as the letters denote – there is a yud in the middle of ‘ish‘ and a hei by ‘isha,’ which combine to spell Hashem’s name.  Thus, I am preparing myself to greet the Shechinah.”  ~ From the book, The Gadol HaDor

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Listen

Fortunate is a person who speaks to an ear that listens. ~ Zohar

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Moving

Death…is like a person who moves from one house to another, only, the wise one chooses for himself a house finer than the first one. ~ The Kotzker Rebbe zt”l

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Who are you Pointing at?

When you point your finger at someone else, three fingers are pointing at yourself. ~ Chicken Soup to Warm the Neshama

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Chayim

The Hebrew word for life, Chayim, is in the plural form.  Indeed, life is an experience to be shared. ~ R’ Shlomo Wolbe zt”l

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Truly Rich

A person who truly trusts in G-d is truly rich.  But a person who is only reputed to trust in G-d is like a person who is only reputed to be rich. ~ R’ Yisroel Salanter zt”l

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