Do you know what teshuvah (repentance) really is?

Almost nobody knows what teshuvah (repentance) is. The multitude thinks that we repent because of misdeeds, and that’s certainly true, but that’s overlooking the most important function of teshuvah. The great repentance is for not having made out of oneself what one could have been. ~ R’ Avigdor Miller zt”l

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Inquiring about Relatives

The prohibition against speaking and hearing loshon hora also applies to relatives.  Therefore, a father is permitted to inquire about his son’s studies only if he will try to help his son.  If the questioning is merely out of curiosity, it is forbidden. The same applies to all relatives.  Seeking information about someone is permissible ony when it is for a constructive purpose.  The questioner must remember to explain that he is asking for a beneficial purpose. ~ Guard Your Tongue

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The Vizhnitzer Rebbe on the first night of Selichos

One year, on the Motzoei Shabbos of the first Selichos, a simple Sephardic Jew set up a small table in Bnei Brak near the Vizhnitzer bais medrash in order to sell Selichos booklets. “Selichot. Selichot,” he called out, but no one even stopped to look. Everyone was arriving with their Selichos in hand, and the poor man stood there hearing empty echoes of his lonely calls. “Selichot. Selichot,” he continued to shout, thinking that maybe people would stop by and purchase a booklet or two.

Finally, his faith was rewarded. The Vizhnitzer Rebbe, the Imrei Chaim zt”l, passed with his entourage. The rebbe saw the humble Jew with a pile of unsold Selichos booklets and grasped the situation.

The rebbe walked over and took his place behind the table.

“Selichos,” the rebbe called out. “Ver vil koifen? Who wants to buy?”

Immediately, a crowd formed. Which chossid would turn down an opportunity to use a Selichos received from the rebbe’s own hand? In no time, the booklets were sold out.

“Do you have more?” the rebbe asked the vendor.

“Yes, I have another case in my machsan,” he said.

“Then hurry and go get it,” the rebbe said, maintaining his post.

The rebbe sold out the second batch as well, handing the dumbfounded seller piles of money he no doubt put to good use.

With that done, the rebbe continued to the bais medrash to recite Selichos.

The rebbe had taught his chassidim a valuable lesson. He demonstrated the glory of helping another Jew. He showed them that the opportunities are everywhere, and those blessed with good vision take advantage of them. There was no introduction more fitting to Selichos for those looking for Heavenly mercy.

Do you want “Selichot”? Do you want Hashem to forgive your sins? Help another Jew. Look beyond your comfort zone and take note of what is going on around you. “Re’eh.” Look. Really look and you will find the “Anochi nosein lifneichem hayom brochah.”

Re’eh. See opportunities. See the needs of other Jews. See your own potential.

Open your eyes to the reality of life. Open your eyes to the opportunities for greatness, growth, forgiveness and blessing.

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The Flickering Candles

If we would be on the spiritual level of ruach hakodesh, we would be able to see future events by gazing at the Shabbos lights.  The Shabbos lights foretell the future with the same accuracy as the prophets did, speaking in the name of Hashem ~ Yesod Yosef as quoted by R’ Dovid Meisels

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Say this Before Prayer

It is proper to say before prayer, “I hereby take upon myself to fulfill the mitzva `Love your fellowman as yourself.'” This means that the precept of Ahavat Yisrael is the entry-gate through which man can pass to stand before G-d to Daven. By merit of that love, the worshipper’s prayer is accepted. ~ R’Schneur Zalman of Liadi zt”l

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The First

The first to apologize is the bravest.  The first to forgive is the strongest. The first to forget is the happiest.

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The tefilah I quoted yesterday was “Tzidkuscha” which we say toward the end of Mincha each Shabbos.

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Identify that Prayer #6

Your righteousness is an everlasting righteousness and Your Torah is truth.  And Your righteousness, O God, is unto the high heavens, You, Who have done great things, O God, Who is like You?  Your righteousness is like the mighty mountains – Your judgment is like the vast deep waters.  Man and beast You save, Hashem.

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End of the Year

Hashem anticipates the “end of the year” (Eikev 11:12) – the month of Elul with great joy; the month that He is closer to us and when we try to draw closer to Him. ~ Sfas Emes

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The Tree of Life

One who wishes to heal his tongue, should partake in the “tree of life” – the Torah – for by eating from it, one can earn eternal life.  Know that the study of Torah is the means through which one can avoid lashon hara. ~ Shmiras Halashon, Sha’ar Hatorah

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With Great Power Comes Great Responsibility

After resolving a difficulty in Rambam, R’ Yisroel Salanter fainted.  “If I have such talent,”R’ Yisroel explained upon coming to, “I have a tremendous responsibility.  The Heavenly Court will demand of me, “Why didn’t you get the whole world to do teshuvah?” ~ Sparks of Mussar

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