Halachah

If a person is not knowledgeable of the law of a given prohibition, then no amount of mussar will help him. ~ The Chofetz Chaim

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Pesach Story from Reb Shlomo Carlebach zt”l

Once there was a rich man who wanted to give Elijah his due and purchased an exquisite silver goblet in his honor.  He and his wife enjoyed using it at the Seder for many years.  One year, he lost all his money and had to sell off all his possessions.  And although it was worth a lot of money he did not want to sell the silver cup.

Spring came, there was no money to buy matzah and wine for Pesach.  Reluctantly he decided to sell the cup.  He told his wife his plans.  “What do we need the cup if we will not have a Seder?” His wife did not agree.

“We can’t even have the mitzvah of eating matzah, and you are not allowing me to sell the cup.”  He was very angry.  On the morning before Pesach, he told her: “this is our last chance, let’s sell the cup.”

“No,” she said without hesitation.

“Then I am leaving the house and going to shul.  There is nothing for me to do here.”  He left.

In a little while, there was a knock on the door.  A rich looking man was standing in the entrance.  “Is this the house of Reb Chaim the great scholar?  I came from very far and would like to be with his family for the Seder.”

“I wish we could invite you,” said the wife, “but it looks like this year we won’t have a Seder; we have no money.”

“This is no problem,” the rich man said.  “Here is money, run and buy food for the whole Pesach.  I’ll return in time for the Seder.”

The husband walked home dejectedly and was greatly surprised when he opened the door and saw that the table was set in a way that he remembered from his affluent years.

“Dear husband, we have to wait for the rich man,” and she told him how it all had happened.

They waited and waited but the afikomen had to be eaten before midnight so they began sadly without the guest.

It was time to fill Elijah’s cup and the husband dozed off.  The wife went to open the door for Elijah.  A man entered; it was the rich man.

“Thank you for not selling my cup,” he said, and he blessed her before he left.

The husband woke.  “What happened?  I feel I missed something very great.”

When he was told what happened.  He said: “You held on, therefore, you had the great merit, and you were the one who saw the prophet.”

My dearest friends: Hold on, hold on!

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What is Pesach?

Pesach is the Rosh HaShana of Emuna, Faith in Hashem. ~ Rav Gamliel Rabbinovitz, Shlit”a
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A New Start

“If a person falls from his [spiritual] level, he should know that it is something sent to him by the hand of Heaven.  The whole purpose of the rejection is that he should be drawn closer. The reason for the fall is to awaken this individual so that he steps up his efforts to draw closer to G-d.  The proper thing to do is to begin afresh as if you were just starting to serve G-d. Start now as if you had never begun before at all.  This is one of the greatest principles in serving G-d.  Every day, literally , make a complete new start.” R’ Nachman of Breslev zt”l

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No Reason to get Angry

“At the time of a person’s anger, faith in G-d has left him.  For were he to believe that what happened to him was G-d’s doing, he would not be angry at all.  And while it is true that the person who is cursing him, or striking him, or causing damage to his property, possesses free choice, and is therefore guilty…nevertheless, as regards to the person harmed, this incident was already decreed in Heaven and G-d has many agents through whom He can act.” ~ Tanya, Igeres Hakodesh ch. 25

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Imagine Eternity – Please Read!!!

We all know that what we do here in this world will greatly affect our position for all eternity in the World to Come.  But what is eternity?

“One has to imagine an enormous mountain of sand situated next to the sea.  Every thousand years a great bird wings its way to the top of the mountain, takes one grain of sand in its beak and drops it into the sea.  Another thousand years must go by until the next grain is removed. 

The exercise it to attempt to visualize, or experience in imagination, the lapse of a thousand years.  The method is again to ‘break down’ the concept into its component parts. 

One begins by imagining the events of one day, then two days, a week, a month, two months, a year, etc., recapitulating each time, as far as possible, the temporal ‘feel’ of a day or a week, and resisting the temptation to relapse into conceptualization by saying ‘and so on’ or ‘as we said before.’  When one has ‘felt’ a year in this manner, one multiplies this progressively until one reaches a lifetime, a century, two centuries, three centuries…until one arrives at a thousand years.  Then – the bird comes and takes another grain from the mound.  But the whole mound is still there!  One has to start the whole process over again for the third grain, and for the fourth, and so on and so on.  (We have to ‘conceptualize’ here as we are describing the exercise, not doing it.)  And even when that unimaginably distant moment is reached and the last grain of sand disappears into the ocean – eternity has still hardly begun! 

If one allocates, say, ten minutes a day to this mental exercise, the empty words ‘eternal life’ will soon have acquired a ‘felt’ meaning which they certainly did not have before.”  R’ Eliyahu Dessler zt”l 

The reason this quote is so important to me is because it puts life into perspective.   We are here for a reason; to serve Hashem by following the Torah and doing as many mitzvos as possible.   We only have one shot, one opportunity, to make the most of it and will then have to live with our decisions for all eternity.   

When you realize how short a time we are here for and how long eternity is, how can you not make the most of it?

The Vilna Gaon says that as soon as a person dies, his or her neshama screams out a great cry of regret as it realizes that it can no longer perform any mitzvos. 

Let us not forget our purpose in life.  Let us use our time wisely so that we will not live with regret for all eternity. 

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True Emuna

“When a person has true emuna in Hashem, suffering does not break him and good fortune does not make him drunk with pleasure.”  ~ R’ Avraham Farbstein zt”l from Torah Tavlin

Tomorrow’s quote is a little longer, but if you take it to heart, it will change your life.

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Never Satiated

“One who truly loves to learn Torah for its own sake can never be tired of it and never be satiated.  Have you ever heard a drunk say that he’s had enough to drink?” ~ R’ Mordechai Gifter zt”l – Torah Tavlin

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Marriage

“Marriage is a microcosm of the soul’s descent into this world: If you are here looking for what you can get out of this world, then the world and all its trappings will only drag you down. But if you are looking for what you can give, then you, your part of the world, and your soul all are uplifted and filled with light. So too, when you enter a marriage: Look for what you can give, and reap harmony and love.” ~R’ Tzvi Freeman

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Heroes

Rabbi Yose said “He who responds Amen is greater than he who blesses.”

Rabbi Nehorai remarked “By heaven this is true.  The common soldiers begin the battle, and the heroes then come and win it.” ~ Talmud Berachos 53b

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