How Great is Shalom Bayis

How great is the preservation of peace, for even the Holy One Blessed Is He altered the truth for the sake of peace! For initially it is written that Sarah laughed to herself at the absurdity of having a child, saying: “My husband is old!” Yet later, when God related her statement to Avraham, it is written: “Why did Sarah laugh, saying: ‘Shall I indeed bear a child, though I am old?’” ~ Talmud Yevamot 65b

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Assistance

“When a person comes to make himself impure, the doors are opened for him. When he comes to purify himself, he is assisted… If he sanctifies himself a little, he is given great sanctity. If he sanctifies himself below in this world, he is sanctified above and in the world to come.” ~ Talmud Yoma 39A

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500 Gold Coins

“The Yismach Moshe toiled in Torah from his youth.  He had great difficulty with his livelihood and it affected his learning and service of Hashem.  One evening he made an accounting and determined that in order to pay off all of his debts and support himself for the rest of the year he would need five hundred gold coins. He davened from the depths of his heart to Hashem, Who has all of the silver and gold, “Master of the World, please arrange five hundred gold coins for me.”  He davened intently and in the course of his davening exhausted himself until he dozed off.  He dreamt of the holy Arizal entering the room and the room lighting up from his holy presence.  The Yismach Moshe though that Heaven must have sent the Arizal with the five hundred coins.  The Arizal came closer and said, “If I bless you and you have the five hundred coins you will no longer need Hashem’s help.”  With that, he awoke … with the realization that we need Hashem’s help for every step and every breath.  The One Who created each day also created sustenance and He will provide us with our food when we need it.” ~ Rav Menachem Azolai as translated by Dov Elias

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Rain

Rain is termed gevuros as its decent reveals (Divine) might. Taanis 2A

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Effort

“All a person controls is the effort; the results are in God’s hands.  Success is then not determined by the results.” ~ David Sacks

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A Mirror

According to the Arizal, the wife is a mirror of her husband.  Any deficiency he sees in her is actually his own deficiency. ~ The Garden of Peace by Rav Shalom Arush

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Stars

“The Jewish people are likened to stars, in that from the earth they seem very small, but in the heavens they are actually immense.  On earth, the nations of the world may consider the Jews to be of little significance, but in heaven, they are of primary importance.” ~ The Divrei Shaul in Torah Tavlin

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Humility

“Once you have distanced yourself from anger, the quality of humility will enter your heart.  This sterling quality is the finest of all admirable traits, as Scripture writes: On the heels of humility comes the fear of Hashem.” ~ The Ramban’s Letter

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Under Fire

“Under fire” – in the midst of a difficult tribulation – we can’t see how our current predicament is for our own good.  But with emuna, we believe that our current predicament is for our own good.  Our faith gives us the strength to cope and to function at our best under any situation. ~ The Garden of Emuna

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Believe in Teshuva

“If you believe that you can damage, then believe that you can fix.” ~ R’ Nachman of Breslov

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