A Sigh – wow!

There are two books in Heaven, one of sins where you gave a sigh when you sinned and one when you didn’t, and the difference in punishment between them is greater than the distance between heaven and earth. ~ R’ Itzele Peterburger Blazer zt”l

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Silence

One should always cultivate silence and refrain from speaking, except with regard to matters of knowledge or things that are necessary for his physical welfare; it’s said that Rav, the disciple of our saintly teacher, Rabbi Yehuda HaNasi, never in all his days uttered an idle word–which is what the conversation of most people consists of. ~ Rambam

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Marathon

If life is like a marathon, then a doubt in faith is like a pebble in your shoe. ~ R’ Lazer Brody

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Your Eyes

A person’s evil inclination only has control over that which he sees. ~ R’ Nachman of Breslov zt”l

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Loshon Hora Lesson from the Parsha

Instead of arranging for Yitzhak to become blind so as to enable Rivka and Yakov to trick him into blessing Yakov, G-d could have simply revealed Esav’s wickedness and unworthiness to Yitzhak. G-d would not have been divulging anything that Yitzhak didn’t already suspect of his son–after all, Yitzhak already knew that Esav’s wives were idolaters (although he excused his son by saying that he could not control his wives) and that he did not usually mention G-d in his conversation. G-d’s reticence here teaches us an important lesson: if G-d chose to allow Yitzhak to go blind rather than speak negatively about the wicked Esav, certainly we must take extreme care not to speak negatively of others. – Lubavitcher Rebbe

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The Marketplace Won’t be Open Forever

The Steipler once told a student, “You’re depressed, and I’ll tell you why: you are learning to gain recognition.  But that is not the reason why one should learn Torah.  This world is like a marketplace which is open for seventy or eighty years.  We have to be smart and grab as many blatt Gemara and mitzvos while the market is open, because once the market closes, we come to a world where nothing else has any value – not money, not honor, not lineage.  Riches on this world will bring nothing in the next world.  Torah and mitzvos, that’s all that will count.”  ~ 5 Great Lives

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Treat Your Spouse Like a Stranger

R’ Yitzchok Blauser used to say that a man should treat his wife as respectfully as he would treat a stranger.  Just as a person is careful to be polite to strangers, so should a husband be polite to his wife. ~ Kochvai Ohr as quoted by R’ Zelig Pliskin

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Understanding Others

These days, given the stresses and tension of modern life, many people are irritable and depressed.  This may cause them to say things they really do not mean, and they regret having said them.  We should keep this in mind and give people every consideration. ~ R’ Avraham Pam zt”l

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Our Individual Bricks

We know that Hashem takes every good deed we do and transforms it into the building the Bais Hamikdosh. In fact, when Mashiach comes, each of us will actually see the individual bricks or stones that were added because of our mitzvos. ~ Divray Yechezkal, Shiniver Rebbe

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Does Hashem care about little things? 

Try to call out [to Hashem] at every opportunity. Let’s say you’re going somewhere; if you say a short prayer you shouldn’t miss the bus, Hashem will love you for that.
If you say, “I won’t bother him for such a small thing; I’ll try to catch the bus myself, without him,” you’re off the tracks already. In everything you try to remember to call out to Hashem; he doesn’t mind being bothered. ~ R’ Avigdor Miller zt”l

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